As long as you're careful, and where possible connect the ground first, it's really not that bad.
It's almost like the 'will my magnetic screwdriver hurt my computer' argument...
Just be careful is all that's required. As long as you dont go shorting things left right and centre, all you're doing is connecting a live feed to a device - how is that different from pressing a power switch?
Oh, and the spark plug thing - as soon as you unplug one of them, the motor would be missing quite considerably, but even a 4cyl can usually still idle when you're down one cylinder. Once you actually REMOVE the plug, you loose all compression in that cylinder, and it'll spit fuel out of the hole.
Replace the plug, connect the lead, hey presto.
However - touch the contact of the spark-plug lead at any point during that last operation = painful.
So even something as outlandish as that is possible - all it requires, is care.
Tell your riceboy friend to spend money on speakers before lights, too 😉