Is it okay to lose your virginity via a prostitute?

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Kadarin

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My belief is that when you "lose your virginity", you really lose nothing, and gain a whole new world of sexual experience. Why virginity is considered a virtue I'll never know.

As far as prostitution is concerned, you pay for it either way, whether it's in regard to an up front no-strings-attached business transaction, or via taking a girl out to dinner, buying flowers and jewelry, and generally having to deal with her life and her emotional crap for a while. I don't have a moral problem with it.
 

brigden

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I lost my virginity, drunk, in Montreal to a completely anonynomous girl I met in a dance club. I didn't regret it nine years ago and I don't regret it now.
 

Tinkerhell

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Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: Tinkerhell
I say go for it if you want to get AIDS.

Exactly. Because everyone knows that only hookers have AIDS and they all have it. That and the fact that condoms have not been invented yet. Sage advice to be sure.

I didn't say only hookers have AIDS. You certainly have a higher chance of getting AIDS from a hooker, because they let anyone and anything fvck them. I applaud you for supporting prostitution.
 

Howard

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Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Sex should be an expression of love. Money can't buy love. Although she might call you "daddy" or refer to you as deity at one point or another, it's not love. I think it's a silly thing because it's taking the shortcut. In reality, you're just prostituting yourself.
Why should sex be an expression of love? Do you think animals feel love when they fvck? No, love is just an emotion brought about by those silly chemicals in the brain to ensure the survival of the offspring and the mate.
 
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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
My belief is that when you "lose your virginity", you really lose nothing, and gain a whole new world of sexual experience. Why virginity is considered a virtue I'll never know.

Word up. I think there are a complex set of reasons why religion tends to place a premium on virginity, but to me casual sex is surpassed only by loving sex in the continuum of life's fun activities.
 

vi edit

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I didn't say only hookers have AIDS. You certainly have a higher chance of getting AIDS from a hooker, because they let anyone and anything fvck them. I applaud you for supporting prostitution.

Hence the reason I suggested that if he was serious about this he solicit the services of a working girl in a legal and regulated state/county/country. They are required to be tested for STD's and various other diseases. Not to say that the transmission of something bad isn't possible, but it's far less likey than picking up a girl off a street corner. Hell, probably less likey even of picking up something from a random sexual encounter.
 

DeeKnow

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Originally posted by: Atomicus
Originally posted by: furie27
I don't believe in losing ones virginity by way of marriage. At the same time I think that paying for sex is wrong, not necessarily something that should be illegal, legislating "morality" will never work. But part of becoming a "man" is to find your first conquest. Paying for it only cheapens the experience.

What if you sell all your assets just to buy 1 night with a celebrity? Oh say.... Halle Berry or Jennifer Love? :confused:


hmmm... now that you mention Halle Berry, that changes my perspective on a lot of things ...:D
 

flxnimprtmscl

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Originally posted by: Tinkerhell
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: Tinkerhell
I say go for it if you want to get AIDS.

Exactly. Because everyone knows that only hookers have AIDS and they all have it. That and the fact that condoms have not been invented yet. Sage advice to be sure.

I didn't say only hookers have AIDS. You certainly have a higher chance of getting AIDS from a hooker, because they let anyone and anything fvck them. I applaud you for supporting prostitution.

Has anyone taught you about condoms yet? Apparently these things help protect against AIDS and a host of other diseases. Or so I'm told, anyway. He didn't say he had to hit it raw did he?

But you're right on one thing. I support prostitution. However did you guess? Actually, forget I ask. I'm pretty sure an explaination of the thought process that went into that conclusion would make my eyes bleed.
 

BaboonGuy

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I am very unimpressed with the immaturity of ATOT in discussing this topic. I will be posting this on [ H ]ardForum, where I can get some SERIOUS, not immature and mean, discussion. :|
 

Wheatmaster

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If people want to lose it that way, i'm not against it. They can lose it whatever way they want.
 

RobCur

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Originally posted by: jjones
Well, if you've hit your mid-30s and haven't lost your virginity yet, then by all means, find the nearest hooker and fix that sh!t.
If you don't mind having AIDS or other diseases, go right ahead...
Many of you that said YES are obviously JOKING and laughing behind your computer :roll:
 

imported_KirbsAw

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Originally posted by: bootymac
Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
It's very common for males in Thailand to lose their virginity via prostitution. But, we're not in Thailand are we? :p
And the women in Thailand have bigger dicks than most guys here!

LOL :D nice one
 

SuPrEIVIE

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whats worse if someone is fu**ing there freinds mother! i have seen this site, won't post it ofcourse...bunch of fu**ers in the 20s having sex with a married woman all at almost twice their age
+this thing is being shared like mad:disgust:
 

CTrain

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Sep 26, 2001
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So much ignorance in this thread.
Just about every other answer is "well if you want STD".

We'll not talking about the crack whores that walk the street at night and will do anyone for $10.
Sure those prostitutes probably have all kind of STD.

When someone want to lose their virginity via prostitute, I'm think high class call girls, brothels, escorts, etc...
Hell those girls fear STD more than we do and probably take extra care of protecting themselves.
Beside there is such an invention call condoms.
Hell, hooking up with people at clubs and such will present the same if not more risk of contacting STD.

Oh and my answer is absolutely.
 

sonambulo

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just do it. it's going to be a depressing, underwhelming event anyways. might as well have a professional walk you through it.

if i had the financial means to travel to nevada and do it legally, i would have.
 

Pliablemoose

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I'd like to know how old BabboonGuy is, if he's >21 or so, maybe, but definitely with an overcoat.
To know for the rest of my life that I paid for my first piece of ass, priceless:(
 

lavagirl669

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Originally posted by: Tinkerhell
Originally posted by: lavagirl669
Originally posted by: BaboonGuy
Is it okay to lose your virginity via a prostitute, with you paying for her services?

IMO
It is ok, but be safe, and the steering clear of the oral stuff might be wise too
....and for all you guys on here with the bad comments about prostitutes
not ALL are whores or street types.

There are high class ones as well that if you do your homework right
can be a good choice.

PM me baboon guy and I'll tell you where you can look for that info.

Otherwise you'll just get bashed about it here.

I could never consider a prostitute high-class. Have experience in the field? I don't know how anyone can say screwing a hooker is a good idea. It's dangerous and pathetic. I say go for it if you want to get AIDS.

No experience, I just have some male friends who have done that sort of stuff and there is a site they use to research who they see that's all.
 

vshah

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ewww for one thing, too many risks. another, i think sex is something to be shared with someone you love. it certainly isn't something you should pay for.
-Vivan
 

imported_KirbsAw

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Originally posted by: vshah
ewww for one thing, too many risks. another, i think sex is something to be shared with someone you love. it certainly isn't something you should pay for.
-Vivan

Yeah, it's better if you care about the person. If not you might as well just get some lotion and a porno.

edit: Although I see nothing wrong w/ it if after the first you use one, as long as you aren't in a relationship and you use protection.
 

Wheezer

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Originally posted by: sonambulo
just do it. it's going to be a depressing, underwhelming event anyways. might as well have a professional walk you through it.

if i had the financial means to travel to nevada and do it legally, i would have.


LOL!