lowfat, i know what you're talkin about, CS major here too. i had problems with my right wrist( keep it clean ), but the doctor said it's a keeloid, where a sac in the wrist get's filled with a hard fluid. she gave me a brace to wear whenever i have problems, and that helped a lot
i can do lifting without a problem, i used to need wrist straps, but don't anymore. if you're diet wasn't working after a month, you should have increased your diet intake. that arnold book has some good programs, if you don't have it, get it.
i suggest the hardback version