Is it bad to compliment girls, by telling them they are cute?

[se7en]

Originally posted by: phantom309
The old saying goes:

Treat a whore like a lady
Treat a lady impolite
Tell a smart one that she's pretty
And a pretty one she's bright.

That's all you need to know about talking to girls.

holy moly thats the truth !! preach it brother !

 

[yukichigai]

You can't just say she's cute in a general sense, unless it's obvious she wants to be cute. Typically women like to be thought of as "attractive" or "beautiful" or even" f%$#ing hot" more than cute overall.

Now if she asks you how a new outfit makes her look or something similar you can say cute. It's also okay to say she looks cute today.

So to recap:
cute = good for temporary/instant/"now".
beautiful = good for general/overall/average.

 

[tk149]

I had a female friend (about 23 years old at the time) who hated being called, "cute," and preferred the term "attractive" or even better, "Beautiful."

I had a girlfriend (about 30 years old at the time) who loved being called "cute."

Generalizing women's attitudes is like playing Russian Roulette.

 

[fumbduck]

Why is there a comma in your title?

 

[Descartes]

I've told many random women that I thought they were beautiful, and it seemed well-received each time. I have a tendency to lose propriety when confronted by certain women, so sometimes I say it without even thinking about it. I don't say it with anticipation of reciprocation or even acknowledgement really. I was once reduced to a simple "wow" when expecting to be alone in an elevator I found a beautiful woman instead. I need not say my lack of eloquence in admiration for her resulted in a slightly awkward ride.

 

[Pepsei]

Originally posted by: Vortex22
If you're trying to pick up a girl, don't tell her she's cute/hot unless she is really NOT hot.
If she is hot, make a lighthearted joke that makes fun of her, but don't overdo it.
If you gush to a super hot chick telling her how amazing she is, chances are that she will blow you off because she's heard it 1000 times before.


*Disclaimer*
Any or all of the above statements are most likely false and I am not liable for any trouble that taking my advice may cause.

Dude, you copied those lines from the "how to pick up hot chicks" guide that was posted on yagt.org

 

[Konigin]

No, its good.