You're the biggest pathetic piece of crap I have ever come across. I would just step on you right now.
They way you are about desperately needing a GF is fscking sad. Not to mention it'll drive away all the girls, moron.
Just forget about girls and live your own life. You won't be getting one anytime soon.
PS: Get a haircut
Edit: Actually, stop aiming for the hot girls, and go for a girl with a personality (read: ugly
) you actually like. Any decent looking girl wouldn't waste their time with you, unless you are filthy rich.
They way you are about desperately needing a GF is fscking sad. Not to mention it'll drive away all the girls, moron.
Just forget about girls and live your own life. You won't be getting one anytime soon.
PS: Get a haircut
Edit: Actually, stop aiming for the hot girls, and go for a girl with a personality (read: ugly
) you actually like. Any decent looking girl wouldn't waste their time with you, unless you are filthy rich.alright, do you think that I could eliminate that aura, by pretending to be not needy?
Or would I have to truly stop being a needy person? (I would rather just pretend to not be, cuz that way I dont have to change how much I like women)
bradruth
Lifer
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Stop being needy. It's pathetic and people (especially girls) can spot it from a mile away. Pretending to be something you're not isn't going to get you a woman. You might be able to fake it enough to get one date, but after that you're screwed and you'll have even more personal problems.
lol, this is actually a good idea. You guys will probably learn that i dont spend enough time looking for women. I probably spend an average of 1-2 hours a week hanging out with members of the opposite gender.
I've wanted a dog REALLY bad, but unfortunately my mom wont allow me to get one, because I am living at home, and she has allergies, and all that crap. Pisses the heck outta me.
No.
Yes.
Tough sh!t.
You misspelled "Stalk/obsess over, desperately pursue like a rabid dog and therefore scare away" pretty badly there.
- M4H
Homophobia + no sense of humour = two more reasons why both men and women alike loathe you.
- M4H
bradruth
Lifer
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alright everyone. I am going to try the "not let on to the fact that I am needy around girls" strategy, and see if they will still dig me.
Honestly, I dont think I could make myself want a girl less than I currently do. Nothing is going to convince me that they arent "a really good thing to strive for" until I get into a bad relationship.
I dont think that you can change what you want, or how bad you want something. I think that to try to do that, is only lying to yourself.
Heck, I believe that I will be able to control myself, and act appropriately, and come accross as "not needy" no matter what kinds of emotions are stirring up inside.
Really, I feel that this is my way that I can save face when I'm around women.
Well, peace out all, its time to go study for awhile.
Honestly, I dont think I could make myself want a girl less than I currently do. Nothing is going to convince me that they arent "a really good thing to strive for" until I get into a bad relationship.
I dont think that you can change what you want, or how bad you want something. I think that to try to do that, is only lying to yourself.
Heck, I believe that I will be able to control myself, and act appropriately, and come accross as "not needy" no matter what kinds of emotions are stirring up inside.
Really, I feel that this is my way that I can save face when I'm around women.
Well, peace out all, its time to go study for awhile.
Dude, you're not going to find a girl when you spend 1-2 hours a week around girls. Until you do something about that (like change it to a minimum of 1-2 hours a DAY), shut the hell up about how much you want a girlfriend. Jesus H Christ. What do you expect? If you really wanted a girlfriend, you'd do more than bitch and moan about it on a messageboard. You're a good looking kid, go out and find something to do.
I'm thinking to myself right now that I gave you exactly this advice a few months ago. Let me find it.
Edit: here it is, 31 March of this year: http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview.cfm?catid=38&threadid=1281791&arctab=arc
You were posting as gjeste, but it was the same damn problem.
Pitiful
I'm thinking to myself right now that I gave you exactly this advice a few months ago. Let me find it.
Edit: here it is, 31 March of this year: http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview.cfm?catid=38&threadid=1281791&arctab=arc
You were posting as gjeste, but it was the same damn problem.
Pitiful
What you need to think about, Skywalker66, is not how much you need a girl, but how you can present yourself to a girl to make her think she needs you! If you meet a girl, and all she sees is how needy you are, she's going to be immediately be turned off.
However, if you can show to a girl how much you could give to her, she might be interested. And sometimes this means playing hard to get. You don't want a girl to think you'll give what you have to any old thing that comes along. She has to prove she's worth what you've got.
To break it down, try and get in with a GROUP of girls (through classes, work, youth group, whatever.) Be their FRIEND, and DON'T MAKE ANY DESPERATE TALK/ACTIONS. If you get in good with them, it's almost guaranteed they'll talk amongst themselves about how cool/nice you are and at least one of them will like you. BUT AGAIN, DON'T BE DESPERATE, then they'll only pity you, and you'll never get any.
Oh, and one more thing...don't be afraid to date (somewhat) below your standards. Dating one not-so-ideal looking chick is not the end of the world, and if anything, will only open the door to you meeting MORE girls. It's not like you have to marry the first (or second, or third...) girl you meet.
However, if you can show to a girl how much you could give to her, she might be interested. And sometimes this means playing hard to get. You don't want a girl to think you'll give what you have to any old thing that comes along. She has to prove she's worth what you've got.
To break it down, try and get in with a GROUP of girls (through classes, work, youth group, whatever.) Be their FRIEND, and DON'T MAKE ANY DESPERATE TALK/ACTIONS. If you get in good with them, it's almost guaranteed they'll talk amongst themselves about how cool/nice you are and at least one of them will like you. BUT AGAIN, DON'T BE DESPERATE, then they'll only pity you, and you'll never get any.
Oh, and one more thing...don't be afraid to date (somewhat) below your standards. Dating one not-so-ideal looking chick is not the end of the world, and if anything, will only open the door to you meeting MORE girls. It's not like you have to marry the first (or second, or third...) girl you meet.
Originally posted by: Atomicus
Originally posted by: Excelsior
I really wish I could come up with some witty reply, but I can't.
I'm in the same boat
:beer:
i think skywalker, syringer, and the guy who who asked that chick to stick her hand out so he could hold her hand should all be friends
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