Is it bad that...

[simms]

I'll donate a few bucks to make this stop too.

 

[Trey22]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Trey22
Here's hoping you've set and reached at least some of your other life goals (education, financial stability, etc.) If not, concentrate on bettering yourself as a person, which in turn will make you more desireable.

Having a good woman is important, but so is also being a good man.

Thank you for the serious reply. I do have other goals as to accomplishing financial stability in life, that is why I am in school. I can see how bettering yourself can be a good thing too, I am doing that, as well as looking for a girl,
it just seems that the girl thing is more of a need. I already feel like I am a good person, so that is why I am looking for a girl.

Is this a bad thing?

If it's turning to or has turned into an obsession, then yes, it's unhealthy, and like me, you need to kill more Nazi's (damn krauts) in Battlefield 1942 to occupy your mind, lol.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: gigapet
Do u have a list of activities that you actively engage in each day that will aid in you acquiring a girlfriend?

I don't. But I am wondering if I should perhaps consider changing my lifestyle to help me aquire this goal. I guess the other day ago I realized that, in truth this was my biggest goal, and I'm trying to decide if it is a healthy thing, that this is my biggest goal, before embarking on any kind of a quest.

if it isnt hurting someone else and would make you happy i am sure it is a decent goal to have...but like all other things, you reap what you sow......soo if you just post about a girlfriend and say i wan i wan i want you will not get any closer to having one.......here is my recommendation....

-hit the gym 3-4 times a week if you are not doing so already, this will boost testoterone and give you increased energy and confidence which women are very keen on picking up

-make a commitment to approach at least 2 girls a day and try to attain there fone numbers or arrange a future meet up.....you will get rejected....alot.....but what you learn will increase your confidence and improve your interaction with females

-active observe the behaviors of men you believe are sucessful with women, take notes and start taking what they do and incorporate it into your life....

-if you dont have some already take up a hobby!


thats all do start with....i guarantee you if you make a commitment to do these things on a daily basis you will have dates and a girlfriend in no time at all. BUt like anything else you must work for what you wwant and sometimes its gonna suck.

 

[pyonir]

Yes, that is bad.

 

[simms]

Originally posted by: PanzerIV

Originally posted by: simms
You don't want a girlfriend. I have 2 and both asian. One was from the past that really means a lot to me but treated me like *hit. She "cheated" (i use quotes beacuse we weren't together when she did this) on me between the periods we weren't together. I met this really nice girl that I'm with now, it's been just over 1month, and it's great, she makes me happy.. but the old one wants me back. ><

Now I don't know what to do with 2 girls, and I'm gonna have to hurt one when I really care for both.

Hmmm I don't see the problem here. One messed around with several guys and treated you like sh!t by your own admission and one is treating you like a king and is great. I think contestant number two is the obvious choice here, dude.

Sorry. Also forgot to mention I'm moving back in August, so I won't see the 2nd one... for a long, long long time, and that's when I see the FIRST. I don't see the first now. And I don't think 3 months is strong enough to hold a long D relationship. Plus I'm not sure if I'm attracted to the GIRL, or just the good way she's treating me.

Simon

 

[simms]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: gigapet
Do u have a list of activities that you actively engage in each day that will aid in you acquiring a girlfriend?

I don't. But I am wondering if I should perhaps consider changing my lifestyle to help me aquire this goal. I guess the other day ago I realized that, in truth this was my biggest goal, and I'm trying to decide if it is a healthy thing, that this is my biggest goal, before embarking on any kind of a quest.

if it isnt hurting someone else and would make you happy i am sure it is a decent goal to have...but like all other things, you reap what you sow......soo if you just post about a girlfriend and say i wan i wan i want you will not get any closer to having one.......here is my recommendation....

-hit the gym 3-4 times a week if you are not doing so already, this will boost testoterone and give you increased energy and confidence which women are very keen on picking up

-make a commitment to approach at least 2 girls a day and try to attain there fone numbers or arrange a future meet up.....you will get rejected....alot.....but what you learn will increase your confidence and improve your interaction with females

-active observe the behaviors of men you believe are sucessful with women, take notes and start taking what they do and incorporate it into your life....

-if you dont have some already take up a hobby!


thats all do start with....i guarantee you if you make a commitment to do these things on a daily basis you will have dates and a girlfriend in no time at all. BUt like anything else you must work for what you wwant and sometimes its gonna suck.

Good thoughts. I'm doing... All of those (minus the observation part... except to look at good style).

 

[randomlinh]

it's not bad i guess... i'm somewhat looking for a gf.. but when you look, you never find... so just sit back and go out.

 

[skywalker66]

q]
But it's the ONLY topic you ever discuss. People actually offered up some advice to you at first, but you wore out your welcome after the 10,000th thread on the same subject. Now we don't care so just STFU and pay for a hooker or something. I'll fscking PayPal you $5 for the Finally Get Your Dumb Ass Laid Fund if it will keep you off the boards.[/quote]

look, i dont want to get laid dumbass. I just want a girlfriend. And you cant really go out and buy love, or at least not true love.

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: PatboyX

Originally posted by: skywalker66
My most important goal in life right now, is to get a girlfriend?

Upon pondering this, I realized this a few days ago.
PS: I am 20 years old by the way

its bad to make being with "girlfriend" a priority. its just a status symbol at that point, not an individual. just a tool for use.

its not a status symbol at all though. I have a craving for a woman in my life. I have a hole in my life that I need to fill, with a woman. Its not about status.

 

[Ogg]

Originally posted by: skywalker66
q]
But it's the ONLY topic you ever discuss. People actually offered up some advice to you at first, but you wore out your welcome after the 10,000th thread on the same subject. Now we don't care so just STFU and pay for a hooker or something. I'll fscking PayPal you $5 for the Finally Get Your Dumb Ass Laid Fund if it will keep you off the boards.

look, i dont want to get laid dumbass. I just want a girlfriend. And you cant really go out and buy love, or at least not true love.[/quote]

at least take their money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[nick1985]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: oniq
You're never going to get a girlfriend, you ugly bastage!! STFU ALREADY!

ugly? lol, sorry dude, aint the case, girls tell me that I'm at least average.

post a pic. if girls say you are average, that means they are to nice to say you look like a troll. now GTFOH and dont come back. ugh...

 

[skywalker66]

gigapet - are u purposely ignoring my replies

no im not, sorry i just took awhile to respond. I was talking to some people in real life. hard to do 2 things at once.

 

[nick1985]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

I have a hole in my life that I need to fill


i think you are looking for a girlfriend named bubba

 

[simms]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: PatboyX

Originally posted by: skywalker66
My most important goal in life right now, is to get a girlfriend?

Upon pondering this, I realized this a few days ago.
PS: I am 20 years old by the way

its bad to make being with "girlfriend" a priority. its just a status symbol at that point, not an individual. just a tool for use.

I have a hole in my life that I need to fill, with a woman. Its not about status.

Look.. how would you know if you haven't ever had one? You're just assuming because you think you've exhauseted other options.

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: Asharus

Originally posted by: clamum
Pics to see if you're fugly?

Yeah, we'll be honest w/ you too.

alright. since you guys demand (ive done this before though):

https://webmail.acad.bethel.edu/IMAGES/CARS/CARS/20030827/12595300.JPG

 

[nick1985]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Asharus

Originally posted by: clamum
Pics to see if you're fugly?

Yeah, we'll be honest w/ you too.

alright. since you guys demand (ive done this before though):

https://webmail.acad.bethel.edu/IMAGES/CARS/CARS/20030827/12595300.JPG

post a link that works. i guess you are so ugly the internet rejected you.

 

[edro]

Lower your standards.

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: simms
What kind of girl says you're just AVERAGE? Girls will either say you're cute, or good looking. But no one is AVERAGE. if they say that, you're just ugly and they're just trying to be polite.

But seriously, post a pic. Have you ever had a girlfriend? Ask yourself why you want one. Companionship? Action? to Score? Someone to spend time with?

never had a girlfriend.

I guess I just want the female companionship. I dont want to score. But putting my arm around her, or kissing would be nice.

 

[User1001]

Originally posted by: nick1985

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Asharus

Originally posted by: clamum
Pics to see if you're fugly?

Yeah, we'll be honest w/ you too.

alright. since you guys demand (ive done this before though):

https://webmail.acad.bethel.edu/IMAGES/CARS/CARS/20030827/12595300.JPG

post a link that works. i guess you are so ugly the internet rejected you.

I believe this was a joke.

 

[Nitemare]

Become gay, you probably still won't get laid but you might be able to get used and abused.

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: FrustratedUser

Originally posted by: skywalker66
My most important goal in life right now, is to get a girlfriend?

Upon pondering this, I realized this a few days ago.
PS: I am 20 years old by the way

Just stop it please. I am single too and have been for a long time now. Just stop making this a major goal, you will end up like a sell-out, pussy whipped lamer.

I just wont act desperate around girls. If I have to, I'll make it less of a goal, so that I can sell myself without looking desperate. But you can cover up your desperateness, cant you?

and would girls really have a problem if this was my main goal? I dont feel that I would have any problem with a girl if this was her main goal, i mean its totally understandable.

 

[HardcoreRobot]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: simms
What kind of girl says you're just AVERAGE? Girls will either say you're cute, or good looking. But no one is AVERAGE. if they say that, you're just ugly and they're just trying to be polite.

But seriously, post a pic. Have you ever had a girlfriend? Ask yourself why you want one. Companionship? Action? to Score? Someone to spend time with?

never had a girlfriend.

I guess I just want the female companionship. I dont want to score. But putting my arm around her, or kissing would be nice.

move back in with ur mom

 

[Yo Ma Ma]

Originally posted by: skywalker66
My most important goal in life right now, is to get a girlfriend?

Upon pondering this, I realized this a few days ago.
PS: I am 20 years old by the way

Mail order one and then get on with your life.

If you don't mind not going out much to dance or whatever, try a realdoll.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

gigapet - are u purposely ignoring my replies

no im not, sorry i just took awhile to respond. I was talking to some people in real life. hard to do 2 things at once.

dood read my list of things to do daily....apply it......i saw your pic you should have no problem getting laid or a gf or both.

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: saxguy
no. you are what you are.

Edit;
actually now that i think of it. do you mean getting a girlfriend as in finding companionship, or do you really just want to get laid?

no, i want companionship, i dont want to get laid.