Is high society not for me?

tjmudder

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Ok so I have pondering this for awhile now and although it may be too deep of a thread for here, I do want to hear what people think.

So lately I've been completely turned off by rich people lately. I'll tell you why in a minute but I'm going to give some background info. I'm in college, I live in a big city, my family is somewhere in the middle class status. I went to a rich private school for high school only because my father teaches there. Right now In college studying for a major which, if you work hard, can land you a really great job. Right now I work at a movie rental store because I love movies, but it happens to be in a rich area of town. Some recent events this past weekend is why I've started asking these questions. This past weekend during my work shift in the morning and afternoon, I was the only person working that was old enough to run a register. Lately we've been having more customers in the store due to some recent closings of our other rental stores. Because of the more customers, the lines have grown longer which has resulted with some angry customers. I have had some people storm out of the store because we couldn't open another register, or maybe because they just don't understand the groundbreaking concept of patience. I had one man get mad about having to wait in line to only find out that his game he wanted to rent wasn't in, so he chewed all of us out about it. I apologized about it but he kept going off about it. I gave him some crap back because it was not our fault and he could have walked up to one us not at a register and ask about it before getting in line. Even the people behind him said he was a dick as he walked off. I another person get mad at us because he didn't know that only one register was open. I mean did he not see the long line for the one register?!

So I guess if there is anything I'm tyring to get at it is this, I'm afraid that if I make a lot of money later on in life, it will keep me from being happy and I will become a dick. Will I become as rude as these other people? Will I forget about that people with lower paying jobs are still equal to me and I am no better than they are? Will my kids be spoiled brats? Will I be caught up in my possessions? Because if anything, they do not lead to happiness, the Bible kind of discusses this a good bit. I mean I can't judge all wealthy people on this basis because I do know some great people that make good money. Part of me wants to be wealthy so I can turn around and help people and give of myself. The other part of me just wants to find a job that allows me to travel the world cause then I think I would be really happy no matter what it pays. So enough with my ranting, I'm curious as to what other people have to say.
 

Kelemvor

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Money brings out the true being of people. Great people can do great things with money. Assholes can become bigger assholes with more money.

People who were pretending not to be asses often let their true selves out when they get moeny
 

Safeway

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I am set up to be decently wealthy in the next 5 years. Law school (me) + Pharmacy school (girlfriend) = Big bucks.

I hope my attitude doesn't change. I want to remain an asshole. :laugh:
 

SnipeMasterJ13

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I wouldn't be worried about making a lot of money. I've seen extremely wealthy people be extremely nice. I've also seen people on the other end of the scale act so ridiculous I wanted to hit them. It may partially have something to do with financial status, but I don't think the "holier than thou" attitude is directly related to the financial scale.

One other factor may be how you acquire the money. If you are rich at birth, then more blame should be placed on your parents for how they raise you. If you grow up working hard and earn your own money, it would make sense you have a higher chance of still behaving normally.
 

mwmorph

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Everybody has to complain about something. People complain about their bosses, bills, every once in a while their significant other. Rich people still are just as happy/unhappy as anyone else, they just have to find new things to complain about. What used to attract their disdain like trouble with the bills or bosses are no longer applicable and now they'll complain about that seems like trivial problems to you or I but probably very real troubles to them like the maid bumping the furniture with the vacuum or the long lines at the register.

In the end, it's the base person, not the socioeconomic status that determines it. There are d-bag lower and working class just as they're d-bag rich.
 

Anubis

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
btw people in high society don't goto video stores. They use on-demand.

most wealthy people are older and most older people cant fucking work on demand
or maybe just every older person i know is stupid and does not know what the Pause button is
 

Randum

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The truth is, a lot of people live in debt and are "chasing the jone's". everyone wants more but what they fail to realize is its just "stuff". and someone always has more "stuff", they will never be happy. When you see them venting frustrations, they arent happy with themselves. They are merely living this consumer-driven life-where they think they can "buy" self esteem and happiness with things and stuff-but thats all they are "things and stuff" is not happiness. You are left with bitter and unhappy people because they cant understand why they arent happy despite their expensive items they own...

i classify rich people in two catagories, the "old money-actually rich" people where you wouldnt know if they were rich or not, but know they are satisfied

then there are the "new money" or "debt ridden" people who buy things that are flashy to let you know they spent a lot of money on things, generally assholes.

and truly wealthy people will not let you know they are wealthy...remember if you have to tell people how much money you make or how much you spend, you aren't truly wealthy...

anyhow my 2 cents!
/end rant

 

Mo0o

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Originally posted by: Safeway
I am set up to be decently wealthy in the next 5 years. Law school (me) + Pharmacy school (girlfriend) = Big bucks.

I hope my attitude doesn't change. I want to remain an asshole. :laugh:

I hear a decent # of JDs dont end up practicing or end up making major bucks at a top law firm because the competition is so tough. GL to you
 

Mo0o

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Originally posted by: Randum
The truth is, a lot of people live in debt and are "chasing the jone's". everyone wants more but what they fail to realize is its just "stuff". and someone always has more "stuff", they will never be happy. When you see them venting frustrations, they arent happy with themselves. They are merely living this consumer-driven life-where they think they can "buy" self esteem and happiness with things and stuff-but thats all they are "things and stuff" is not happiness. You are left with bitter and unhappy people because they cant understand why they arent happy despite their expensive items they own...

i classify rich people in two catagories, the "old money-actually rich" people where you wouldnt know if they were rich or not, but know they are satisfied

then there are the "new money" or "debt ridden" people who buy things that are flashy to let you know they spent a lot of money on things, generally assholes.

and truly wealthy people will not let you know they are wealthy...remember if you have to tell people how much money you make or how much you spend, you aren't truly wealthy...

anyhow my 2 cents!
/end rant

What about people that dont tell it to your face but still buy fancy gadgets and toys because they have a lot of discretionary funds to play w/? A lot of my friends are like that and theyre perfectly nice people but you can tell they're rich based on their clothing/accessories
 

Skunkwourk

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Originally posted by: Safeway
I am set up to be decently wealthy in the next 5 years. Law school (me) + Pharmacy school (girlfriend) = Big bucks.

I hope my attitude doesn't change. I want to remain an asshole. :laugh:

man I need a pharmacist girlfriend, i don't think I could marry a lawyer
 

Safeway

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Originally posted by: Mo0o
Originally posted by: Safeway
I am set up to be decently wealthy in the next 5 years. Law school (me) + Pharmacy school (girlfriend) = Big bucks.

I hope my attitude doesn't change. I want to remain an asshole. :laugh:

I hear a decent # of JDs dont end up practicing or end up making major bucks at a top law firm because the competition is so tough. GL to you

Really depends on where you go and who you know. Thankfully, I am at a top ranked law school and know a senior partner. $160k, here I come.

Edit: Engineering -> Intellectual Property is a hot commodity and command high starting salaries. The question is, will that last?
 

BrownTown

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Also, if YOU become rich then you won't have to work at a crappy job like a video store where assholes can bitch at you. If YOU are the rich person then you can just tell other peopel to shove it, so maybe you DO want to be rich so that you don't have to deal with assholes...