Is dancing with another cheating?>

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: deftron
Not slow dancing or grinding ... just normal dancing.

only if its the horizontal mambo..

 

[Patt]

No. Cheating is an emotional state more than a minor physical one.

 

[Pacfanweb]

Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
if you don't feel comfortable telling your SO you did it, you probably shouldn't be doing it. Simple, no?

And this is your winner!

Anyone who says that very intimate dancing or "grinding" is okay when you have a SO or spouse.....okay, go to the club with your wife/husband/BF/GF and watch them do it with someone else.
If you are okay with that, there is something wrong with you, IMO. Nothing to do with trust of your SO, but the green monster should definitely make an appearance.

Would you be okay with your GF or wife grinding her ass into some co-worker's crotch in the breakroom at work?
And adding some lights and music makes it different how?

 

[PingSpike]

Does it matter? Dancing sucks!

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: deftron
Not slow dancing or grinding ... just normal dancing.

Depends on if you were carrying your balls in the mason jar that you had already surrendered to the gf....

 

[JulesMaximus]

No.

 

[Mears]

Originally posted by: Pacfanweb

Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
if you don't feel comfortable telling your SO you did it, you probably shouldn't be doing it. Simple, no?

And this is your winner!

Anyone who says that very intimate dancing or "grinding" is okay when you have a SO or spouse.....okay, go to the club with your wife/husband/BF/GF and watch them do it with someone else.
If you are okay with that, there is something wrong with you, IMO. Nothing to do with trust of your SO, but the green monster should definitely make an appearance.

Would you be okay with your GF or wife grinding her ass into some co-worker's crotch in the breakroom at work?
And adding some lights and music makes it different how?

QFT

 

[Last Rezort]

Originally posted by: HotChic
No, dancing is a socially accepted polite practice.

 

[aniepras]

Dancing with another girl may not be "cheating" but it is a step in the right direction. If you do it without your SO knowing and later get caught your still in deep shit.

 

[imported_DocHolliday]

Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
if you don't feel comfortable telling your SO you did it, you probably shouldn't be doing it. Simple, no?

I like that policy

 

[aniepras]

Besides guys your foolong yourselves if you are dancing with some hot chick and aren't mentally cheating. Unless it's your mother and some of your even then.

 

[Tremulant]

If you're skywalker, then thinking about girls is cheating (on righty).

 

[DeMeo]

ask Dr. Phil.

 

[mercanucaribe]

Grinding, yes. Waltzing and such, no.

 

[PatboyX]

only if you do it privately sans clothing.

 

[gshock888]

not if she's dancing on top of you with something of yours inside her

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Mears

Originally posted by: Pacfanweb

Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
if you don't feel comfortable telling your SO you did it, you probably shouldn't be doing it. Simple, no?

And this is your winner!

Anyone who says that very intimate dancing or "grinding" is okay when you have a SO or spouse.....okay, go to the club with your wife/husband/BF/GF and watch them do it with someone else.
If you are okay with that, there is something wrong with you, IMO. Nothing to do with trust of your SO, but the green monster should definitely make an appearance.

Would you be okay with your GF or wife grinding her ass into some co-worker's crotch in the breakroom at work?
And adding some lights and music makes it different how?

QFT

 

[Schadenfroh]

Originally posted by: iwearnosox

Originally posted by: HotChic
No, dancing is a socially accepted polite practice.

 

[lowfatbaconboy]

no...if someone thinks it is they are a controlling psycho

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: lowfatbaconboy
no...if someone thinks it is they are a controlling psycho

99.99 % of women are hormonally off at any given time though....so..?

 

[dderidex]

Originally posted by: icejunkie
yes, so is talking, looking or breathing in the direction of...

QFT++

Although this thread offers an interesting perspective on how relationships tend to fail.

A lot of ATOT'ers don't seem to 'get' that your relationships with members of the opposite sex - and, indeed, what you can do for "fun" - must change SUBSTANTIALLY when you are in a real relationship.

 

[Nutdotnet]

What the heck is "QFT???"

Anyway, dancing, grinding, whatever, is NOT cheating. I don't currently have a SO, but if I did I would care less who she danced with, and how she danced with him (or her).

The dancing may be sexual, my girl may think he (or she) is hot, it doesn't matter. If she's going to cheat on me then ultimately that's her decision; NOT mine.

If you're confident in who you are and what you bring to the table then you don't have to worry about things like this. The last thing you want to do as a bf or gf is put limitations on your SO. I'd hope by this stage in my life I (along with others my age; 24) would understand that we're all adults and capable of making wise decisions.

 

[imthebadguy]

did u feel her up?

 

[MercenaryForHire]

UrbanDictionary, f&cking USE IT.

- M4H

 

[moshquerade]

dancing is a mating ritual. that is the only reason for dancing. so there is your answer.