Can you provide some back up?
How do you explain folks that grew up with conscience-absent parents etc. but still have the capacity to decipher right from wrong? In other words there are people who were exposed to very UN-nurturing environments/people but who still have & use their conscience...
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I take it you aren't familiar with the phrase "it takes a community to raise a child."
Children in the developed world, while learning a great deal from the parents, learn far from in total from all the people they interact with. Teachers, classmates, neighbors, parents of friends, anyone else the kid meets, all lend a hand in raising that child, so to speak. They may not even be doing anything consciously for the child, simply interacting with him/her.
But nobody learns much of anything from only a single source. What gets repeated is learned most rapidly, and well... nobody really effectively teaches ethics and morals, but most of us put it all in practice for our daily lives, and the little things help mold the overall shape of a person.
Really, all of this is an unconscious conditioning we all commit ourselves toward.
I mean, think about it, we're entirely conditioned. And we continue to condition each other. We continually drill each other with admonitions against various crimes, but aside from legal code... what are the roots of our ethical and moral ideals?
To put it another way: why is something wrong?
"Because"
We are continually taught fairly simple ideas, with very little actual reasoning also included in the lessons. We aren't taught any detailed "why", we are given a short "well because so and so says so" (if it doesn't sound like that, it's likely only a more wordy sentence that, in all likelihood, equates to the shorter quoted sentence).
Because these simple lessons are being pummeled into our brains without end or mercy, it just becomes a simple fact that needs little rationale or further analysis.
This wasn't all in reply to the quoted post. I just branched further to get into the discussion already underway.