Have owned/driven manual vehicles for the last 15 years and I always try to get another manual when it comes car buying time. My wife is the same way. We both love our manual cars
We just honeymooned in italy and it was cheaper to rent a manual vehicle than automatic.
I have driven them on steep hills and in bad traffic and I dont mind them. It forces you to pay more atttention to your driving and gives you more control of the vehicle. Even the crappiest shitbox gets a little bit more fun with a stick. I had the (dis)pleasure of driving a chevette back in the day. A little 3 cylinder econobox car. With the stick, its actually fun. The little engine needs as much horsepower as you can squeeze out of it. I got to try an auto chevette and you have to drive that thing and govern the engine with the gas pedal position in an attempt to keep the engine in its powerband and not be handicapped at an inopportune by an upshift. No such crap on the manual.
Another great point about the manual is engine breaking. I bought a new car with a stick and had to finally change the brake pads at 130,000 miles. Those are showroom brake pads that lasted so long because I engine brake aplenty.
I find that manual makes you drive differently in heavy traffic too. I see all the surrounding cars in a constant hurry. As soon as some space opens up in front of them, begins the mad dash only to stomp on the brakes in less than 10 feet. What is the point of accelerating so hard and wasting fuel like that? And consuming your brake pads to slow down? Its a fool's race, lets race to be up the ass of the driver in front of us the soonest! Having a clutch makes your clutch engagements count. I've had people behind me beep at me to get going but they can all kiss my ass. I dont usually let the clutch out until there are at least 2-3 car lengths of travel available in front of me. And then I creep along in first gear and not be in any sort of hurry until its time to brake again. Sometimes I can time it correctly and stay in first the entire time, keeping up with traffic by creeping along while the fools in the lanes alongside me do the stop and go.
Those paddle shifters are a knockoff if you ask me. Yes its better than putting the car into D; at least you can choose your gears. But the important thing is the clutch!