I love these FREAKING RETARDS that must be from Poodunk, AK or something about apartment/condo life.
Ever really hang out in NYC? Chicago (not illinois, but the main city in it)? Last I checked there are no houses, even the private 'brownstones' are attached to another almost always. While I don't think anyone expects anyone else to put up with music loud enough to hear clearly in their next door apartment, you have to expect some muffled sound to come through....same way if a get together is going on upstairs....I have lived on the top floors of everywhere I have been, but visiting others sometimes you can hear steps, esp tiled apartments and less than ideal sound isolation between floors.
As much as it is your right for quiet, so is it theirs to entertain *occassionally*. I usually keep it on a low profile when I am living in apartments, but I will say the absolute largest disturbance has always been babies, children running up and down the hallways (usually always visitors), and spouses/live-in's yelling to each other down the hall (usually way before 9am).
For the people that say 'get a house and stopping renting [because you are poor/cheap/whatever]', I have been to many places costly several $100k for a small place.
They usually say get your butt out of the country and a real job to get a city flat.
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