People say Apple is slow to change, or uses slow change to hype up changes that have been made in the Android world or on other OSes. Whatever the theory is, in the end it works out pretty well.
During the iOS4 launch, Steve said that they may not be the first to implement things, but it works damn well. Sure we made fun of them for copy and paste, but the Android implementation was piss poor til Gingerbread came out. People laughed at them for multitasking, yet Android's memory management system isn't perfect and takes 2gb RAM or massive specs in general to make it decent. People made fun of them for MMS which didn't come til iOS4, yet Android messaging apps fail at MMS left and right. Hell group MMS didn't hit til Android 4.2.
You don't HAVE to be the first one there especially if your implementation is meh at best. It's like saying Android had dual core CPUs first, but what good did that do? I guess it made the OS less of a lagfest. But in the end the lag issue required OS level changes as well as yet even faster CPUs like Kraits and quad cores to solve.
So yeah, I do want Apple to pick up the pace and jump in, but its slow and steady pace hasn't really hurt it too much. Sure they may not be market leaders, but their products to me are pretty well polished and if you look at the evolution since 2007, they've come a LONG way.
People are just giving it flak for the big screen. If they released a 4.5" phone instead, I bet a lot of the criticism would go away, and we would be even more focused on the 5C pricing.