hi, many things actually can cause that problem, but i need more of an idea of your exact setup configuration... when did it start doing this? was it working before?
1. have you tried unplugging the cable modem, then waiting 2 minutes, then plugging it back it and checking the lights?
yes
2. did you remove spyware, then this occured?
no
3. have you tried releasing the ip with ipconfig /release then renewing it with /renew
didnt work, still holding the 169.x address
4. have you tried perhapo another pc connected to it to see if that works properly?
don't have a 2nd pc to use/test
5. its just the modem connecting the the pc through an ethernet cable? or is it usb? or do you have routers or anything else?
connected via a router, well was, not connected straight thru.