Look, when you have a community in which the vast majority of the population are computer geeks with no social skills and even less tact and understanding of the female psyche, you're bound to get tons of YAGTs that are pages long yet address a very very simple issue which could be asked and answered in less space than this paragraph.
i.e. Was this girl flirting? / Does she like me? / She has issues / Ex-b/f is psycho / I got rejected / I got dumped / Controlling g/f
ad nauseum.
Simple solutions:
Girl not yours yet? Grow a pair. ask her out. You'll either get a date or get rejected. Life goes on.
Girl not yours and has issues? Grow a pair, don't let her use you as a doormat. She's not your friend, you're just convenient.
Girl is yours and her ex has issues? Confront the ex. Problem solved.
Girl is yours and has issues? Dump her.
Everything is SO SIMPLE but people insist in elaborating and embellishing everything because they think that somehow, despite the vast majority of relationships that have begun and ended in the history of time, that theirs is somehow unique and not answerable using the current resources of knowledge.