What are you guys smoking? Girls have a more active imagination in the sex dept than every guy. Seriously, look at pron created by a man versus a woman.
Girls are more sexually repressed than guys too! To woman, the psychological part of sex plays a huge part... just gotta know how to push her buttons 😉
But really, wtf is wrong with looking at someone sexually? Why would I want to be be married to someone that I don't want to have sex with... its called perpetuation of the human species.