Originally posted by: trmiv
Your experience with a cat is of course completely dependent on the cat. Every cat has a different personality, and if you observe the kittens before you get one you can judge them somewhat. My wife and I were not cat people, but we wanted another pet and didn't want another dog in an apartment (although we're in a house now), so we got a cat. I don't know if we got lucky or just picked well, but this cat is the greatest cat in the world. He's actually more dog-like than cat-like. He's a big boy, 25 pounds and 26 inches long from head to the start of his tail (almost over 3 feet with the tail), he's never once jumped on the counter, although he's capable of it, never torn anything in the house up, although he's fully clawed, and although he's very large and strong has never acted aggressive in any way. In the almost two years we've had him I've never heard him hiss or seen him act aggressive at all. He's actually very loving and loves getting attention (on his terms though), and will often come up next to you and demand to be pet. He gets along with our dog great and they love to play together. Since we got him when he was 8 weeks he's never seen another cat, so maybe some of his behaviors are influenced by being raised around a dog.
The unfortunate thing is, he has a heart disease called HCM (Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy) which is not curable. The vet says he will likely only live to be 3 or 4, if we're lucky he may make it to 5. He's almost 2 right now. 🙁 The good thing is this disease doesn't have symptoms, he will be "healthy" until the day his heart fails. The bad thing is that could really happen at any time, and the lifespan the vet said he'd have is no guarantee. Right now he's a happy cat though, so we're just trying to enjoy this unique cat in the short time we have with him.