I'm so lonely I could cry

[Booster]

Not that I would cry for real. I feel like I'm just dying b/c I'm so lonely. It's quite difficult to explain it and I don't know what to do. This feeling just tears you apart from the inside. I'm not talking about guys here, it's a girl business I guess.

So.. if you ever felt like that... What did you do please? I don't wanna die.

 

[dabuddha]

You won't die from lonliness. Best thing I can recommend with what little information I have is just go out. Get out of the house/apt.

 

[Booster]

Originally posted by: dabuddha
You won't die from loneliness. Best thing I can recommend with what little information I have is just go out. Get out of the house/apt.

It's not what I need. In fact, I'm actively employed. I see lots of people every day. But it's not them I need. I think I need to fall in love for someone, there are lots of girls in the streets, but it doesn't seem to be possible.

 

[edro]

Go to an Asian Spa... they are real good about solving that loneliness problem.

 

[nativesunshine]

come hang out with me!

 

[Ameesh]

last time i checked lonliness isn't fatal

 

[captains]

best thing to do is go out and get drunk at a bar. play some pool meet some people. u will definitly find someone there that has it way worse then u and you'll also find someone there that will be a new best friend.

 

[BeauJangles]

Sounds like you're suffering from depression. Go see your doctor (no joke), some of the drugs they can give you work wonders.

 

[KhoiFather]

Everybody! Time for GROUP HUG!!!! :beer:

 

[clamum]

Originally posted by: Booster

Originally posted by: dabuddha
You won't die from loneliness. Best thing I can recommend with what little information I have is just go out. Get out of the house/apt.

It's not what I need. In fact, I'm actively employed. I see lots of people every day. But it's not them I need. I think I need to fall in love for someone, there are lots of girls in the streets, but it doesn't seem to be possible.

:music: If you want it
You can have it
But you gotta learn to reach out there and grab it :music:

 

[Descartes]

Originally posted by: BlinderBomber
Sounds like you're suffering from depression. Go see your doctor (no joke), some of the drugs they can give you work wonders.

Yah, when you're feeling down, go get medication. Can't anyone deal with their damn problems anymore?

 

[amcdonald]

Change your attitude, if you don't think its possible, you'll probably pass the oportunity by when it comes.

 

[notfred]

Originally posted by: Booster

Originally posted by: dabuddha
You won't die from loneliness. Best thing I can recommend with what little information I have is just go out. Get out of the house/apt.

It's not what I need.

Oh, so you plan on meeting women sitting around your house then?

 

[pyonir]

When you are looking for something you can never find it. When you aren't looking it always pops up in the most obvious of places.

 

[Beau]

:music:Hear the lonesome whippoorwill
His song's too blue to fly
The midnight train is a-winding low
I'm so lonesome I could cry

I've never seen a night so long
When time keeps crawling by
The moon is gone behind the clouds
To hide his face and cry

Have you ever seen a robin weep
When leaves have turned to brown?
Like me he's lost his will to live
I'm so lonesome I could cry

The silence of a falling star
Lights up a purple sky
and as I wonder where you are
I'm so lonesome I could cry

 

[Spooner]

This thread is depressign me. Go have a beer man!

 

[filmmaker]

Originally posted by: Booster

Originally posted by: dabuddha
You won't die from loneliness. Best thing I can recommend with what little information I have is just go out. Get out of the house/apt.

It's not what I need. In fact, I'm actively employed. I see lots of people every day. But it's not them I need. I think I need to fall in love for someone, there are lots of girls in the streets, but it doesn't seem to be possible.

It's possible, trust me

 

[dquan97]

Originally posted by: KhoiFather
Everybody! Time for GROUP HUG!!!! :beer:

Group Hug!!!!!

 

[stormbv]

Cry if you feel like crying...it's healthy.

I know that feeling of being torn apart from the inside...worst feeling ever, it makes me want to tear into myself and poke my brain with cold steel.

 

[mryellow2]

Are these feelings of sadness/loneliness recurring?

Check it out.

 

[Shawn]

I feel the same way. I keep looking and looking and I can't find anyone. Maybe it's true that you only find someone when you're not looking. I wasn't looking when I found my ex.... she just showed up one day and wouldn't leave me alone! lol.

 

[Booster]

OK I know it's a stupid thread. I started to feel bad after I saw one girl just for a brief moment a few days back. Up until then, everything had been fine. It's when you see something you can't reach and it makes you feel very sick. Something that is too good for you, something you can never have.

 

[AlienCraft]

Originally posted by: Booster
Not that I would cry for real. I feel like I'm just dying b/c I'm so lonely. It's quite difficult to explain it and I don't know what to do. This feeling just tears you apart from the inside. I'm not talking about guys here, it's a girl business I guess.

So.. if you ever felt like that... What did you do please? I don't wanna die.

I know what you're talking about. I felt that way for a few years after my last relationship went south. It was worse as I tried to overcompensate with wild women and partying. At the end of all that, though, those people didn't hang around, nor did I want them to.
What worked for me was getting comfortable with being with ME.
I then got a cat, after resisting for a long time due to touring schedules. Now that I am responsible for her well being, it's helped me stop being so morose and self centered.
Getting out of the house will help, also. Go biking, run, anything but sitting around.
DO NOT SELF MEDICATE. Getting high or drunk just sets you up for bad or unproductive behaviors.
If you think you may be depressed, go see a Dr. There's no shame in it, it may REALLY help and at least you will be making some forward strides for your own benefit.

About the "girl business".... Try not to be so impatient. The good ones are hiding behind the upraised skirts (legs) of the ones that will squash your heart like a bug. Once you get past the self pity part, are comfortabler with being with "you", the women (not "Girls") who are worthy of your attention will reveal themselves to you. I don't mean "expose themselves" that's something different. Remember, there are people who go through their whole lives alone, just smiling at another person may make their day, and might just lead to new friends.
Couldn't hurt.
HTH,
Allen

BTW< be careful of Country Music, it may lead to selling the pick up truck and leaving the dog....

 

[Graphicd00d]

Get a pet. Like a dog or cat.

 

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: Booster
It's when you see something you can't reach and it makes you feel very sick. Something that is too good for you, something you can never have.

meh. You get used to it.