or the fact that if the wife is looking for other relationships, she's already "lost" to begin with.
or the fact that if the wife is looking for other relationships, she's already "lost" to begin with.
Rule number 1: While the office may provide office supplies, it is best not to dip your pen in the company ink.
Rule Number 2: Look but do not touch. Married women are off limits, no matter how hot they may be.
Little piece of advice from someone who has been there: Leave her now, and don't ever look back. If you are worried about a sexual harrassment charge, talk to your boss before this gets ugly for you both at work. Also remembetr this, hubby could alway suprise you and her one day, and he just decide to let his 2 buddies do the talking, Smith and Wesson.
No matter what she says, she will not leave him for you, plus if she is cheating on him with you, who is she going to cheat on you with?
Rule Number 2: Look but do not touch. Married women are off limits, no matter how hot they may be.
Little piece of advice from someone who has been there: Leave her now, and don't ever look back. If you are worried about a sexual harrassment charge, talk to your boss before this gets ugly for you both at work. Also remembetr this, hubby could alway suprise you and her one day, and he just decide to let his 2 buddies do the talking, Smith and Wesson.
No matter what she says, she will not leave him for you, plus if she is cheating on him with you, who is she going to cheat on you with?
MichaelD
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Exactly...I would've used different verbage, but the idea is the same. It's not rape, for cryin' out loud and most of the people that whine about are people that have been screwed over and hurt.
Welcome to the real world. I've come home and found my GF performing oral sex on some dude in my kitchen. How's that for a wakeup call. IMO, the guy didn't know me, he didn't do anythign wrong. I did tell him to get TF out NOW and he did. But other than that, she packed her stuff and split the next day. Life is harsh. Get over it.
I never said she was not wrong but knowingly banging some women who is married is just sick in my book...and if yoiu think it is right your morals are severly fvcked up.
Ausm
Ausm
Geekbabe
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Having been on the receiving end of that kind of pain,how can you advocate that others bring the same misery
to people?
Many years back I got involved with a married woman.
I went to a club one night and there was this VERY sexy woman there with a girl friend of hers. Well we started dancing with one another and had a great time.
Later on we went outside to watch a meteor shower and when she bent over this railing, I made a comment about how cute her ass was!
To which she responded "Yeah, my Husband like it!" Well up to this point I had assumed she was devoiced. I had asked her earlier what she did, and she had said that she just stayed home with her kids. By this time we had been dancing with each other for several hours and we were both having a great time, and I thought it would be rude of me to drop her and find another woman to dance with just because she was married! At any rate, we ended up spending the rest of the evening together and I got to know her life story. She had been with her husband since High School, and she had only been with two men in her whole life, her husband and another guy she had only slept with one time. Although we had had a great time together that night, it never went any further than dancing and talking.
When next week rolled around, I decided to go back to the same club again and try my luck at finding another SINGLE woman. But when I got there SHE was there again. Well since we had been getting along so well together I felt bad just blowing her off when she asked to dance with me again, so we ended up hanging out with each other again. Several hours later, we went outside to get some air, and she turns to me and says "You know, I sure would like to have an affair with you!"
WELL, what a boost to a male ego!!! I should have run QUICKLY away, but my ego wouldn't let me, so I ended up having an affair with her. She said she loved her husband, and would never leave him, she ALSO said she would NEVER tell him about us!!
Long story short, she eventually did ALL of those things. One time we were talking on the phone and her husband got on the extension, CRYING and telling me what I was doing to his life and his family! It tore me UP inside. And the worse part of all was if he caught me and KILLED me, I would deserve IT! And if I was in his shoes, I WOULD HAVE KILLED ME!
Even though she was the only woman in my life that ever would have done the kind of things for me that she did, and probably the only woman that ever loved me unconditionally. I HAD to brake it off. It was a terrible situation to be in!!
As GeekBabe said, it's the hurt you cause the other people involved that you SHOULD be concerned with....
BTW: She went back to her husband and kids and they are STILL togather.
Originally posted by: Hammer
i just wish i had thought of it first
Yeah, but I still wanted to comment on the subject of the post.
I repeat the shenanigans call.
Surely you can see the inherent irony in falling in love with a woman that cheats on her husband; soon you will be in his shoes, lol.
Believe it or not these people are trying to do you a favour, DaveyBoy69.
At the end of the day, you can carry on despite all these people posting there own experiences and thoughts, or listern to what these people say, and do yourself a big favour in the longrun.
At the end of the day, you can carry on despite all these people posting there own experiences and thoughts, or listern to what these people say, and do yourself a big favour in the longrun.
Originally posted by: MichaelD
*shrug* My morals may be messed up...some say "Non-existent" but it works for me. No hard feelings though, OK?
No hard feelings, So where do you stand on this issue then?
Ausm
I guess the commitment some people get confused on is the whole "till death do us part" thing. Perhaps people should just substitute "unhappiness" for "death," but it just doesn't have the same ring to it, ya know?
Personally, if I was married and my wife fell for another guy, I'd rather she kill me than leave me for him.
Originally posted by: ausm
Originally posted by: 40oz
YES and so will she. The husband will be the person that takes most of the pain and hardship from the situation IMHO these things never turn out good for anyone in the situation.Originally posted by: DaveyBoy69 Do you think i'm gonna get hurt?
Amen Brother...been on the short end of the stick twice
AUsm
I've been on the short end myself once. It took all I could muster not to go kill this guy, and I'm totally serious, I did know him, where he lived, his business, what his truck looked like, etc. I followed him without him knowing for quite some time. I very slowly realized that she was as much to blame, if not more so, than he was.
The episode cost me lots of counseling, a lot of lost weight, and I bordered on alcoholism for a couple of years. It also made me realize that marriage and commitment is not what I thought it was. I fell into the "happily ever after" mode when I got married, only to find out that it was really a fairy tale and could change in the snap of a finger.
I just hope the poster is long gone when the husband finds out, or that he has a goodly amount of self control. He better hope and pray that the husband places the blame on her and not him. He will find out sooner or later. She'll get sloppy and he'll find out, trust me.
They all are, and btw.....i would run if i were you, cause if i was married to some girl i really loved and she was leaving me for some pos like yourself i would kick the sh!t out of you so bad.......you'd be lucky if you made it out alive
MichaelD
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Originally posted by: ausm
Originally posted by: MichaelD
*shrug* My morals may be messed up...some say "Non-existent" but it works for me. No hard feelings though, OK?
No hard feelings, So where do you stand on this issue then?
Ausm
I think I made my feelings well-known. I was just trying to be nice. If you want to be a jerk, that's your business.
Most of my posts lately have been non judgemental advice ( I hope).
This time however,
You both are scum, You for dating her, and she for cheating on her husband. Neither has more blame than the other, both are equally at fault and both are hurting someone else.
Yeah, I have lost women to other men, some have cheated on me, and let me tell you, not only does it hurt, it is also a big cut in the ego. You always are asking yourself, "What did I do wrong? How could I have made her more happy so she would stay?, etc." Well the answer is nothing, and then that hurts worse, why? because you cannot fix it. it eats you up inside.
So, do you want to be in that situation one day? Finding out the woman you cherish is cheating on you, doing the nasty with another man in your bed?
Break it off now arsehole, and tell the little slut bag to hit the road. Find another job to avoid any uncomfortable issues.
This time however,
You both are scum, You for dating her, and she for cheating on her husband. Neither has more blame than the other, both are equally at fault and both are hurting someone else.
Yeah, I have lost women to other men, some have cheated on me, and let me tell you, not only does it hurt, it is also a big cut in the ego. You always are asking yourself, "What did I do wrong? How could I have made her more happy so she would stay?, etc." Well the answer is nothing, and then that hurts worse, why? because you cannot fix it. it eats you up inside.
So, do you want to be in that situation one day? Finding out the woman you cherish is cheating on you, doing the nasty with another man in your bed?
Break it off now arsehole, and tell the little slut bag to hit the road. Find another job to avoid any uncomfortable issues.
Fault the unknown guy for marrying a slut.
Now since it's more than apparent that she likes to screw around, maybe some genital warts for Davey are deserved?
I never had them but I don't want them cut out either.
Now since it's more than apparent that she likes to screw around, maybe some genital warts for Davey are deserved?
I never had them but I don't want them cut out either.
It's interesting how people are more than willing to do what they would least like done to them. Of course, if you have experienced enough pain, you can cease to care about anything.
Finally something you say makes sense. I agree with you on that one. Ironically, my experience made me trust people a lot less than I did before. I don't think I'd be too hesitant to cheat on my wife after that experience. During my first marriage, I turned down several offers and when this thing happened, all I could think was "I turned down lots of offers for what?"
Hard to explain, and this probably doesnt' make much sense, but I definitely lost my confidence in people's honesty.
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