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I'm in the dog house tonight..... Pics added

UsandThem

UsandThem

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I have two boys (3 and 5).

The oldest is good about only coloring on things that should be colored on (paper).

The three year old has drawn on the walls, furniture, clothes, and on the carpet. Luckily this has always been with washable markers.

Tonight I am getting ready to go to work, when I see him haul @ss over to the living room with a paper towel and he starts wiping all over the floor.

I walk over and it seems the wife gave him a black sharpie to color with and didn't watch him (even with his history of coloring on everything). She has previously done this with the washable markers as well.

All I see is a four foot straight black line on the carpet with some dots all around it.

I go off on her, and her response is "You are making a big deal out of nothing" and "this is helping right now".

What sucks is we have five months left on our lease (apartment). It looks like my security deposit is now gone. 🙁

:beer:Married with kids:beer:

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kids do stuff like that. in the great scheme of things...it is no biggie. google to find out how to get it cleaned up.
 
I probably would have done worse and said some smart ass comment like "oh hey you're absolutely right, its only money"....
 
If you don't use corporal punishment, you deserve it and the years of hardship that follow..

With the way my parents smacked me around, I learned sh1t quick..

How about taking the markers, crayons, sharpies, everything away for a while.. Tell your kid he can't write on sh!t for a while until he learns where to write.

 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
kids do stuff like that. in the great scheme of things...it is no biggie. google to find out how to get it cleaned up.
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I know they will do things like that, but when she said she gave him the sharpie was when I was upset.

 
Originally posted by: brxndxn
If you don't use corporal punishment, you deserve it and the years of hardship that follow..

With the way my parents smacked me around, I learned sh1t quick..

How about taking the markers, crayons, sharpies, everything away for a while.. Tell your kid he can't write on sh!t for a while until he learns where to write.
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:thumbsup: for a hard smack on the ass
 
I'm glad we have our own house. Our kids, actually the oldest one, was hell on our house. But such is life with kids.
 
Originally posted by: brxndxn
If you don't use corporal punishment, you deserve it and the years of hardship that follow..

With the way my parents smacked me around, I learned sh1t quick..

How about taking the markers, crayons, sharpies, everything away for a while.. Tell your kid he can't write on sh!t for a while until he learns where to write.
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I have told him that he can only color supervised, however the wife will give him the markers, and then get side tracked watching TV and stuff. He has never colored on anything except paper and his books when I am around....however when the wife is here.......different story.
 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Unchastized kids do stuff like that. in the great scheme of things...it is no biggie. google to find out how to get it cleaned up.
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Fixed.

OP, do you spank your children? If you're still using timeout, the complimentary "Welcome! You're a doormat" pamphlet should be arriving at your residence shortly, no SASE necessary.

Furthermore, there should never be a time that the child receives mixed messages from one parent vs. the other. For that you have every right to be pissed at your wife, especially since this isn't exactly sneaking a cookie in before dinner.

Why this results in YOU sleeping on the couch, I can't even begin to figure. 😕
 
Are you really the ass? No... Are you the ass if you ever want to have sex again? Yes. Sorry honey. Divorce and live the single life imo. I'm an ugly guy and prefer it, if you're even halfway decent looking it can be even better vs. married life. There's really no choice here... Unless you're physically deformed.
 
Originally posted by: UsandThem
Originally posted by: brxndxn
If you don't use corporal punishment, you deserve it and the years of hardship that follow..

With the way my parents smacked me around, I learned sh1t quick..

How about taking the markers, crayons, sharpies, everything away for a while.. Tell your kid he can't write on sh!t for a while until he learns where to write.
Click to expand...

I have told him that he can only color supervised, however the wife will give him the markers, and then get side tracked watching TV and stuff. He has never colored on anything except paper and his books when I am around....however when the wife is here.......different story.
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That's because he knows he can get away with things when you are gone and only "mommy" is here. She needs to step up to the plate and lay down the law quick or things can get out of hand. Seriously.

That's like my little cousins...my aunt believed in only timeouts and stuff mostly and they are so unruly at home. But when at my parents house they didn't dare misbehave.
 
Originally posted by: AStar617
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Unchastized kids do stuff like that. in the great scheme of things...it is no biggie. google to find out how to get it cleaned up.
Click to expand...
Fixed.

OP, do you spank your children? If you're still using timeout, the complimentary "Welcome! You're a doormat" pamphlet should be arriving at your residence shortly, no SASE necessary.
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I spank them when it a major issue (when they do something they know they are not allowed to do). They behave when they are around me. When my wife is here, she lets them get away with murder.😱
 
Originally posted by: RBachman
Are you really the ass? No... Are you the ass if you ever want to have sex again? Yes. Sorry honey. Divorce and live the single life imo. I'm an ugly guy and prefer it, if you're even halfway decent looking it can be even better vs. married life. There's really no choice here... Unless you're physically deformed.
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Ah, this isn't going to be marriage ending, but I hope I can get my point across to her.

All I know is the makeup sex better be AMAZING because my back is going to hurt on this uncomfortable couch😉
 
Originally posted by: UsandThem
Originally posted by: AStar617
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Unchastized kids do stuff like that. in the great scheme of things...it is no biggie. google to find out how to get it cleaned up.
Click to expand...
Fixed.

OP, do you spank your children? If you're still using timeout, the complimentary "Welcome! You're a doormat" pamphlet should be arriving at your residence shortly, no SASE necessary.
Click to expand...

I spank them when it a major issue (when they do something they know they are not allowed to do). They behave when they are around me. When my wife is here, she lets them get away with murder.😱
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Fix it now. It's already a bit late. It isn't easy for a mom to spank her kids but it needs to be done and she needs to send a message that misbehavior won't be put up with any longer.
 
Originally posted by: OdiN

Fix it now. It's already a bit late. It isn't easy for a mom to spank her kids but it needs to be done and she needs to send a message that misbehavior won't be put up with any longer.
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She spanks them sometimes, but she is not consistent with them. For kids to learn the expectations, rewards, and punishment have to be consistent.

Maybe in a few days when she drops her attitude, maybe she will realize that she needs to step up a little.

 
I'm just curious how this works, who decides that you are going to spend the night on the couch? You? Your wife?

I've just always wondered how that works.
 
Giving a 3 year old a sharpie is somthing my 8 year old daughter would know enough not to do, sounds like your perfectly right to be upset however you've got to ask yourself if its worth the hassle... sleeping on the couch really sucks.
 
laugh and tell her "thats going to suck when you have to clean it up". she gave it to him...

hes only 3. they go crazy in an instant. since its his first offense with you there just make sure he knows he cant do it, and next time its a spanking.

at least youre renting and wont really have to pay out of pocket. kids are rough. looking back, im glad we rented for the first few years instead of subjecting our house to that. even so, theyre still dirty. dirt hands, dirty feet, flopping all over the place. i would say make him help clean it up, but he will think thats fun. too bad they grow out of that.
 
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: Eghck
I probably would have done worse and said some smart ass comment like "oh hey you're absolutely right, its only money"....
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FTW!
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That is what I said that really ticked her off.

I said that I for one would like to get our security deposit back.
 
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