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Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Originally posted by: Budmantom
This might help.
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Thanks for the info but 45 bucks for 60 min

hummm need to find a local consulor and get help

Damm why is it so hard to find help for these kinds of problems
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If you have trouble finding someone to talk to about this, try putting your thoughts down on paper (don't type it). That always helped me...

 
If you need counseling, go to Church. It's FREE.

Darkstar. You're a young guy. So is she, I assume. Do you know how naive people are. It's until 40 or late 30's that most people get a sense of WHAT they want and an identity. These life up and down pinball machine movements is what makes you stronger and wiser...as well as her.

Heh, I cringe to hear 20 year old girls talk about this and that. THEY REALLY don't know what they want! You hit it on the head brotha! 🙂
 
doh!

Become a alcoholic to ease the pain and pretend like she is dead.

Dont ever talk to her again for any reason whatsoever. It will make it so much easier for you.

good luck
 
Dammit my stomach still hurts badly


Does anyone know why Im not eating I normaly eat all the time.


Dang I miss her so much

🙁
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Dammit my stomach still hurts badly


Does anyone know why Im not eating I normaly eat all the time.


Dang I miss her so much

🙁
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Geez man, you're falling to pieces. There are worst things in life that can happen. You need some perspective.

I understand and have experienced the physical manifestations of heartache but you are making yourself sick.

Life is a series of wins and losses, put this one in the "L" column, grieve for a moment, then pick yourself up and move on.

You will always feel this. To what degree? I believe that's up to you.

You need strength and courage to get through this not self pity and sorrow.

 
Hey, borrow a married friends ring and put it on, go out to the bars/clubs and youll be hittin it by midnight...........

You can make it, just keep busy. For example by using your friends wedding ring to get some action😀
 
Hey man dont worry about it. I felt the same way like a month ago when my gf broke up with me. I then did the retarded thing and went out with her again and I the ended it a week later. She inst what you really want, she is very close to what you really wanted and thats what hurts.
 
In my mind I know I could have so many other problems in my life

Im blessed with everything I have right now. I just really hurts because this is the second woman I love that I have lost.

Im nervous that I might not ever meet my soul mate. Right now I feel like its my faut that I cant keep a woman. I just dont know what im doing wrong.🙁
 
All the advice you read here wont mean squat.

You are hurting and will continue to hurt for the near term.

You just have to know that in the near future you are are going to feel a lot better.
 
I'll tell you what--it's all relative(and I don't mean her mother).

My wife of 10 years took off with another man and took my (at that time) 6 month old son with her.

My solution was to make certain this did not stop my life. I have re-married(we've been together now for 16 years).

As others have said you'll get over it--IF you allow yourself to.
 
Well Folks im still feeling numb.

I heart is kind of beating fast and I guess me staying up till 3 playing max payne 2 didnt help either.

You know sometimes I wonder what is it that make break ups so bad and so emotional. I mean I shouldnt be tripping like I am. However I find myself feeling like crap.

Why do women hurt us guys so deeply. Before anyone flames me I really do fee like crying about this.
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
In my mind I know I could have so many other problems in my life

Im blessed with everything I have right now. I just really hurts because this is the second woman I love that I have lost.

Im nervous that I might not ever meet my soul mate. Right now I feel like its my faut that I cant keep a woman. I just dont know what im doing wrong.🙁
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You will find her when you are not looking for her. The best thing you can do is get on with your life. She is a part of the past, so just move on.
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Well Folks im still feeling numb.

I heart is kind of beating fast and I guess me staying up till 3 playing max payne 2 didnt help either.

You know sometimes I wonder what is it that make break ups so bad and so emotional. I mean I shouldnt be tripping like I am. However I find myself feeling like crap.

Why do women hurt us guys so deeply. Before anyone flames me I really do fee like crying about this.
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you are pathetic man... don't get me wrong, i've had my heart broken, i understand that you are in the beginning phases of grief but damn... you're crying like a big puss over breaking up with your girlfriend for god's sake.

do you have an ounce of pride? you wonder why they leave you? because you're a coward fella, a spineless punk. women smell fear and it is a huge turn off. i bet you're real clingy too. thank goodnes it's a long distance relationship or you'd be stalking the poor girl by now.

"life is pain, get over it"

nothing wrong with crying. but this whiny "i don't know what i'm gonna do, i'm lost without her, omfg why'd she leave me" crap is sad.

dig deep buddy, (down where your balls used to be) and get a hold of yourself.

 
forget that girl. she obviously wasn't good enough for you. do not beg to get her back, thats just pathetic. too much puss- out there man. a better one will come along.
 
Originally posted by: y2kc
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Well Folks im still feeling numb.

I heart is kind of beating fast and I guess me staying up till 3 playing max payne 2 didnt help either.

You know sometimes I wonder what is it that make break ups so bad and so emotional. I mean I shouldnt be tripping like I am. However I find myself feeling like crap.

Why do women hurt us guys so deeply. Before anyone flames me I really do fee like crying about this.
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you are pathetic man... don't get me wrong, i've had my heart broken, i understand that you are in the beginning phases of grief but damn... you're crying like a big puss over breaking up with your girlfriend for god's sake.

do you have an ounce of pride? you wonder why they leave you? because you're a coward fella, a spineless punk. women smell fear and it is a huge turn off. i bet you're real clingy too. thank goodnes it's a long distance relationship or you'd be stalking the poor girl by now.

"life is pain, get over it"

nothing wrong with crying. but this whiny "i don't know what i'm gonna do, i'm lost without her, omfg why'd she leave me" crap is sad.

dig deep buddy, (down where your balls used to be) and get a hold of yourself.
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lol

 
sometimes it get better, sometimes it doesn't.

but if you are young you have more opportunites in which to feel better.



uhm, of course, it also gives you more chances to get your heart completely stomped on and make you feel even worse.
😀
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Dammit my stomach still hurts badly


Does anyone know why Im not eating I normaly eat all the time.


Dang I miss her so much

🙁
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saying it, typing it makes it worse. for me anyway.

i went thru a very similar situation and i allowed it to control my life. i fell apart. it took religion to get me back on my feet. but for about 1 year there i kept saying the same kind of stuff. but the problem with SAYING it or TYPING it, the very ACT reinforces the thoughts and feelings.
 
Originally posted by: y2kc
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Well Folks im still feeling numb.

I heart is kind of beating fast and I guess me staying up till 3 playing max payne 2 didnt help either.

You know sometimes I wonder what is it that make break ups so bad and so emotional. I mean I shouldnt be tripping like I am. However I find myself feeling like crap.

Why do women hurt us guys so deeply. Before anyone flames me I really do fee like crying about this.
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you are pathetic man... don't get me wrong, i've had my heart broken, i understand that you are in the beginning phases of grief but damn... you're crying like a big puss over breaking up with your girlfriend for god's sake.

do you have an ounce of pride? you wonder why they leave you? because you're a coward fella, a spineless punk. women smell fear and it is a huge turn off. i bet you're real clingy too. thank goodnes it's a long distance relationship or you'd be stalking the poor girl by now.

"life is pain, get over it"

nothing wrong with crying. but this whiny "i don't know what i'm gonna do, i'm lost without her, omfg why'd she leave me" crap is sad.

dig deep buddy, (down where your balls used to be) and get a hold of yourself.
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Yeah this is pretty much what I was thinking.
 
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