I'm finally over that damn b...er, girl!

[Alphathree33]

CLIFF NOTES:

- Together for 1.5 years, talked about getting married, blah blah blah
- Broke up last month
- I posted a huge long crying story on ATOT, thought my life was over
- I had to live in the same house as her for a month while she found a new boyfriend
- Had counselling, barely made it through midterms

But yesterday and today we were forced to spend some time together, and I realized I'M OVER HER! I thought it would never happen, but I've gone from loving her to being indifferent to very nearly hating her guts all in a few days, and it feels great!

I can think about our time together and not get a knot in my stomach. *thinking* Yup, no knot! Sweet!

(I guess it helps that I found another girl that's just amazing... the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else!)

I'M NORMAL AGAIN!!!!!!!!! NORMAL!!!!!!!!!!! Okay, I had to get that out of my system.

This was my first breakup, so I learned a lot. Wouldn't want to go through it again, but if/when I do, I think I'll handle it a lot better.

Anyway, I just wanted to thank you guys one last time because I had a few rough nights there and when no one was available to talk, there were a lot of people on ATOT with helpful thoughts.

Cheers,
Alphathree33

 

[yllus]

Only really one way to respond to that...

:beer:😀

 

[cain]

dude, you the fvcking man.

 

[bleeb]

Originally posted by: yllus
Only really one way to respond to that...

:beer:😀

 

[her209]

Are you crazy?!??!? Opportune 3some passed up.

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

:beer:

 

[spherrod]

Congrats! :beer:

 

[iliopsoas]

:beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer:

 

[User1001]

Originally posted by: Alphathree33
CLIFF NOTES:

- Together for 1.5 years, talked about getting married, blah blah blah
- Broke up last month
- I posted a huge long crying story on ATOT, thought my life was over
- I had to live in the same house as her for a month while she found a new boyfriend
- Had counselling, barely made it through midterms

But yesterday and today we were forced to spend some time together, and I realized I'M OVER HER! I thought it would never happen, but I've gone from loving her to being indifferent to very nearly hating her guts all in a few days, and it feels great!

I can think about our time together and not get a knot in my stomach. *thinking* Yup, no knot! Sweet!

(I guess it helps that I found another girl that's just amazing... the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else!)

I'M NORMAL AGAIN!!!!!!!!! NORMAL!!!!!!!!!!! Okay, I had to get that out of my system.

This was my first breakup, so I learned a lot. Wouldn't want to go through it again, but if/when I do, I think I'll handle it a lot better.

Anyway, I just wanted to thank you guys one last time because I had a few rough nights there and when no one was available to talk, there were a lot of people on ATOT with helpful thoughts.

Cheers,
Alphathree33

Then why would you post this or feel the need to post this???

sorry I couldn't resist. congrats

 

[KarenMarie]

Go back to indifference.

the opposite of love is not hate.
the opposite of live is indifference.

🙂
But good for you that you are no longer pining for her

 

[Kadarin]

You won't be truly over her until more time has passed, and until you've gotten involved in another relationship.