Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: djheater
Whether or not you guys are a fan of the OP for you to childishly insult him and his fiance in this thread really reflects poorly on your character.
When someone volunteers personal information like this, if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all.
Shame on all of you, you know who you are.
Congrats freedomsbeat212, I hope everything works out for you both, sincerely!
Thanks for the kind words and being a class act.
I must add that I deserve all of the doubt and harshness stated in this thread - I've been a tool and my threads have been major proof of my self esteem issues.
I'm working through them and feel like this is a major step toward my maturation. My sister had similar concerns that I still have growing up to do. Hell, I have the same concerns. But Melissa said something very important to me - "we all have growing up to do. Maturation doesn't have a set destination and we could wait forever, or grow up together." That was a discussion we had before I proposed, and it meant a lot to me.
So i'm not angry about the negative energy here, I deserve it so I won't and cant' defend myself. She does not. She's an amazing girl and I'm proud I proved myself to her, and that's all that matters. I won't be snuggling with forum strangers, after all.