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I'm concerned that my son has a secret girlfriend?
My 17 year old son has been very secretive with me lately. Recently he has started to refuse to go to church with the family and tonight I was going through his room and I found a magazine with naked men in it. He obviously has a girlfriend that he's hiding from me that brought that magazine into my home and I am afraid they are having intercourse and I am greatly concerned that he is going to get her pregnant.
What should I do about this?
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He is not a homosexual, we have taught him from The Bible and he has learned through our church that this is not in God's plan.
I want to speak to our pastor about this but I am very afraid of what he would think of what we are teaching our son if he's sneaking girls into his bedroom. That is clearly inappropriate and we are good parents.
2 months ago
I am absolutely positive he is NOT a homosexual. Homosexuality is a temporary state of mental illness and only happens to non-believers, and my son believes in God, so please don't point in that direction because it is clearly the wrong one!
I have been devoted to God my entire life, and He would never punish me with a homosexual and godless son!