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Originally posted by: kogase
Originally posted by: deathkoba
We should respect his wife-beating beliefs.

See, this is where we differ. It isn't wife-beating. It's a light preventative effort into creating a harmonous and ever long-lasting love and respect in a family in a world where people no longer take responsibilities amoungst themselves. It's deep love.

Heh. What can I say? WRONG. There's a difference between a spouse obeying you out of respect and a spouse obeying you out of fear. I find it hard to believe that even most Japanese think like you do.

So you want to live in a world where people can grow to do whatever they feel like doing without considering destructive consequences to their family? What about your children? We only do this out of love because we want the best for our family. We want our family to make the right decisions in the traditional moral sense. It is also to maintain a successful strategy that has worked for thousands of years.
 
Originally posted by: deathkoba
So you want to live in a world where people can grow to do whatever they feel like doing without considering destructive consequences to their family? What about your children? We only do this out of love because we want the best for our family. We want our family to make the right decisions in the traditional moral sense. It is also to maintain a successful strategy that has worked for thousands of years.

Are you comparing a wife to a child?
 
Originally posted by: kogase
Originally posted by: deathkoba
So you want to live in a world where people can grow to do whatever they feel like doing without considering destructive consequences to their family? What about your children? We only do this out of love because we want the best for our family. We want our family to make the right decisions in the traditional moral sense. It is also to maintain a successful strategy that has worked for thousands of years.

Are you comparing a wife to a child?

Not the brightest bulb of the bunch are ya? Let's just drop the topic as you'll never get it and the world will simply move on regardless of our differences of opinions.
 
Originally posted by: deathkoba
Originally posted by: kogase
Originally posted by: deathkoba
So you want to live in a world where people can grow to do whatever they feel like doing without considering destructive consequences to their family? What about your children? We only do this out of love because we want the best for our family. We want our family to make the right decisions in the traditional moral sense. It is also to maintain a successful strategy that has worked for thousands of years.

Are you comparing a wife to a child?

Not the brightest bulb of the bunch are ya? Let's just drop the topic as you'll never get it and the world will simply move on regardless of our differences of opinions.

So basically you were. The patriarch of the house is all knowing, and the wife and children do what he says. If they don't, they get hit until they do.
 
Originally posted by: deathkoba
Originally posted by: kogase
Originally posted by: deathkoba
So you want to live in a world where people can grow to do whatever they feel like doing without considering destructive consequences to their family? What about your children? We only do this out of love because we want the best for our family. We want our family to make the right decisions in the traditional moral sense. It is also to maintain a successful strategy that has worked for thousands of years.

Are you comparing a wife to a child?

Not the brightest bulb of the bunch are ya? Let's just drop the topic as you'll never get it and the world will simply move on regardless of our differences of opinions.

He has a good point. What gives you the right to hit your woman?

Why shouldn't she hit you over the head from behind as a payback to teach you the proper respect for her? This too is a "time honored" way for a woman to deal with a wifebeater because we all know it sucks when we are taken advantage of by loved ones who have a physical edge on us. But everyone has to sleep and maybe she can even the score then, lol?

I can't believe anyone can honestly support violence as a "loving" strategy.

I better log off before I really tell you what I think about you. :roll:





 
I'd hit a woman in self defense, but never just to do it cuz I was feeling a bit ill at the moment. Can't say that I'd ever hit my spouse...

But if some bitch decided to start wailing on me for no reason and she wouldn't take no for an answer, I'd knock her the &^$@ out.
 
It's not that shallow. Why must you argue instead of listen and learn something new for once? You see, this is the biggest problem with western society in that people independantly think they know so much and that anything that contradict's their belief must be wrong..or must be proven otherwise from a reliable resource such as New York Times :roll: So yea like, since it isn't that, it MUST be that!
 
Originally posted by: NFS4
I'd hit a woman in self defense, but never just to do it cuz I was feeling a bit ill at the moment. Can't say that I'd ever hit my spouse...

But if some bitch decided to start wailing on me for no reason and she wouldn't take no for an answer, I'd knock her the &^$@ out.

This goes without saying... if a female starts attacking you physically the rules fly out the window and I would hit her hard enough to insure she would never think to do it again.

But this woman was just sitting there and he started slapping the sh1t out of her while she just cowered. Oh well, I've seen much worse in my life but that was just something I saw today and felt like sharing, lol.



 
Ever consider that getting smacked isn't a big deal to some and that it's just a little indication to wake the hell up?

Kid: Oh daddy smacked me because I wanted soda at 10pm wah wah wah....

Mommy: I'm going to call the police and report domestic violence! :roll:
 
Originally posted by: deathkoba
It's not that shallow. Why must you argue instead of listen and learn something new for once? You see, this is the biggest problem with western society in that people independantly think they know so much and that anything that contradict's their belief must be wrong..or must be proven otherwise from a reliable resource such as New York Times :roll: So yea like, since it isn't that, it MUST be that!

So basically, we're dense, close-minded gaijins until we break down and agree that spousal abuse is A-OK. I disagree. On our side are modern theories of respect and gender relations. On your side are thousands of years of discrimination and abuse towards the female gender, perpetuated by an animalistic desire of sexual dominance and ego stroking.

Anyone know about spousal abuse laws in Japan?
 
Originally posted by: Xyclone
Originally posted by: shimsham
lol @ deathkoba.

Originally posted by: CadetLee
Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: amdhunter
Maybe she looked for it?

No woman deserves to be hit physically IMO 😱

Agreed..

what if she hits first?

I would get the fvck away from her, not turn around and punch her the fvck out. That's not right, dude.



you run and cower if you want to. if anyone tries to beat me, male or female, then ill take the necessary action to stop it.
 
Originally posted by: shimsham
you run and cower if you want to. if anyone tries to beat me, male or female, then ill take the necessary action to stop it.

That doesn't necessarily mean "hit". If a man punched me, I would punch back. If a woman punched me I would restrain her until she calmed down. If she didn't, I would throw her to the ground. After that... well, punching becomes an option.

Of course, if it was a fat, ugly woman I...
 
Originally posted by: Xyclone
Originally posted by: shimsham
lol @ deathkoba.

Originally posted by: CadetLee
Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: amdhunter
Maybe she looked for it?

No woman deserves to be hit physically IMO 😱

Agreed..

what if she hits first?

I would get the fvck away from her, not turn around and punch her the fvck out. That's not right, dude.
What's not right about it? Equal opportunity ownage. Equal rights, equal pay, right to vote...right to get your ass kicked if you start some sh!t.

Say some woman is beating the hell out of my friend. She's bloodied his nose and knocked out some teeth and is still wailing on him. Am I gonna turn around and let her beat the hell out of him? Hell no, I'd push/shove her out of the way and tell her to step the hell off. If she goes back at it or comes after me, then I'm sorry **you deserve what you get**

Don't get me wrong, I don't believe in this whole spousal abuse thing. You know, the guy gets angry so he starts slappin his wife around. I'll have no parts of that. But if a woman starts dishing it out like a man with no shame...
 
Originally posted by: kogase
Originally posted by: shimsham
you run and cower if you want to. if anyone tries to beat me, male or female, then ill take the necessary action to stop it.

That doesn't necessarily mean "hit". If a man punched me, I would punch back. If a woman punched me I would restrain her until she calmed down. If she didn't, I would throw her to the ground. After that... well, punching becomes an option.

Of course, if it was a fat, ugly woman I...



why? if men and women are equal, and all...
 
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Xyclone
Originally posted by: shimsham
lol @ deathkoba.

Originally posted by: CadetLee
Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: amdhunter
Maybe she looked for it?

No woman deserves to be hit physically IMO 😱

Agreed..

what if she hits first?

I would get the fvck away from her, not turn around and punch her the fvck out. That's not right, dude.
What's not right about it? Equal opportunity ownage. Equal rights, equal pay, right to vote...right to get your ass kicked if you start some sh!t.

Say some woman is beating the hell out of my friend. She's bloodied his nose and knocked out some teeth and is still wailing on him. Am I gonna turn around and let her beat the hell out of him? Hell no, I'd push/shove her out of the way and tell her to step the hell off. If she goes back at it or comes after me, then I'm sorry **you deserve what you get**

Don't get me wrong, I don't believe in this whole spousal abuse thing. You know, the guy gets angry so he starts slappin his wife around. I'll have no parts of that. But if a woman starts dishing it out like a man with no shame...



agreed.

step up to the plate, be prepared to take the pitch.
 
gut reaction without bothering to reading the thread and not giving a care if I'm banned:

she deserved it
 
Originally posted by: shimsham
Originally posted by: kogase
Originally posted by: shimsham
you run and cower if you want to. if anyone tries to beat me, male or female, then ill take the necessary action to stop it.

That doesn't necessarily mean "hit". If a man punched me, I would punch back. If a woman punched me I would restrain her until she calmed down. If she didn't, I would throw her to the ground. After that... well, punching becomes an option.

Of course, if it was a fat, ugly woman I...



why? if men and women are equal, and all...

They are equal in that they should be treated with an equal amount of respect. But because women are physically weaker, the way in which you express that respect must differ. At least, in my opinion.
 
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