if you lived 150ft from planned parenthood...

wirednuts

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...and you knew 3 girls that live near you get pregnant before theyre old enough to drink......... ugh i dont even know where to go with this. seriously. they give out free condoms and pills. thats 3 more people in this world who will grow up on government subsidies and likely have no real shot at life because they have children for parents.

no theyre not mine!
 

Pr0d1gy

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...and you knew 3 girls that live near you get pregnant before theyre old enough to drink......... ugh i dont even know where to go with this. seriously. they give out free condoms and pills. thats 3 more people in this world who will grow up on government subsidies and likely have no real shot at life because they have children for parents.

no theyre not mine!

Honestly, I put a lot of blame on the child support laws put into place in the last decade(s)around the country. It removes enough responsibility from young girls and makes it easier for them to assume that they will continue to have money pouring in to their pockets for years and years.
 

shortylickens

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Clear plastic baggie with the word CONDOM on it? Yeah, i'm not surprised they got pregnant.
 

wirednuts

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is it bad that i used to really want kids, but now im almost 30 and i really dont want kids? i do understand the feeling that "i can do it"... but i am counting my blessings everyday it seems now. i still have my whole life, and im in the best shape of my life, and im meeting new people still all the time. to think i could easily have a 5 year old or something just makes me jittery...
 

jagec

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...and you knew 3 girls that live near you get pregnant before theyre old enough to drink......... ugh i dont even know where to go with this. seriously. they give out free condoms and pills.

So, the girls got pregnant because they used condoms and pills? I don't get the connection.
 

Platypus

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lets see..

an organization that takes a realistic approach to human sexuality and provides real tools to people

or

the government's stance that abstinence education actually does fuckall and that people won't touch anyone sexually until they're married and that no one will ever attempt to exercise their primal instincts.

I'll take the former.
 

wirednuts

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lets see..

an organization that takes a realistic approach to human sexuality and provides real tools to people

yep and every day there is at least a few people out front of planned parenthood holding signs of dead babies and signs that say "god hates abortion" and shit. every single day, no joke. many times all through the night too. its like theyre saving babies, but theyre not because anyone that goes there just wants whats best for everyone involved.

planned parenthood protesters should be shot. god i wish i could. i know god would agree with me too.
 

alkemyst

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...and you knew 3 girls that live near you get pregnant before theyre old enough to drink......... ugh i dont even know where to go with this. seriously. they give out free condoms and pills. thats 3 more people in this world who will grow up on government subsidies and likely have no real shot at life because they have children for parents.

no theyre not mine!

jesus dude, we get it...you know girls having sex.

Many middle schools will give condoms to students requesting them now. Kids have always been having sex, it's just now people are trying to make it hard for them to do the right thing.
 

wirednuts

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jesus dude, we get it...you know girls having sex.

Many middle schools will give condoms to students requesting them now. Kids have always been having sex, it's just now people are trying to make it hard for them to do the right thing.

whoosh
 

danzigrules

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the planned parenthoods here don't give free birth control anymore.

we put our daughters on the pill when they were 14. parents are not going to stop them from having sex so we said to hell with having to raise another kid, grand kid or not....
 
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yep and every day there is at least a few people out front of planned parenthood holding signs of dead babies and signs that say "god hates abortion" and shit. every single day, no joke. many times all through the night too. its like theyre saving babies, but theyre not because anyone that goes there just wants whats best for everyone involved.

planned parenthood protesters should be shot. god i wish i could. i know god would agree with me too.

Only works the other way around, sorry. ie George Tiller
 

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is it bad that i used to really want kids, but now im almost 30 and i really dont want kids? i do understand the feeling that "i can do it"... but i am counting my blessings everyday it seems now. i still have my whole life, and im in the best shape of my life, and im meeting new people still all the time. to think i could easily have a 5 year old or something just makes me jittery...

10 years from now, some kid is going to tap you on your shoulder and say


Hi Dad; Mom say hello - you met at that bear bash 20 years ago and you promised to call again :p
 

ImpulsE69

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I've been married 17 years and we don't have kids. 99% of the our friends do, and many had them very young..and never stopped having them (ugh), and when we meet new people who ask if we have kids many seem to think it's strange. Don't know what to say except..never had that "OMG i need kids" gene. I can say that we're happier than 90% of our friends that do have kids.

There's a mentality that you "have" to have kids or there's something wrong with you. I've known girls who have multiple kids who can't support them talking about wanting to get pregnant again...
 
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Vdubchaos

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is it bad that i used to really want kids, but now im almost 30 and i really dont want kids? i do understand the feeling that "i can do it"... but i am counting my blessings everyday it seems now. i still have my whole life, and im in the best shape of my life, and im meeting new people still all the time. to think i could easily have a 5 year old or something just makes me jittery...

Kids are not for everyone.

Pros and cons to ANYTHING you do.

My wife and I have 4 (started at 19 years old) and it has worked out great for us.

We wouldn't change a thing if we can go back.
 

OverVolt

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The birthrate is plummeting, so this thread doesn't surprise me lol.

I see alot of gay & lesbians who are successful, and have to find ways to blow their money. Then I see alot of middle-class family's with kids struggling. And then I see people on government handouts with like 12 kids as career welfare recipients. Makes me wonder what we are breeding the next generation to be like.
 

JulesMaximus

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...and you knew 3 girls that live near you get pregnant before theyre old enough to drink......... ugh i dont even know where to go with this. seriously. they give out free condoms and pills. thats 3 more people in this world who will grow up on government subsidies and likely have no real shot at life because they have children for parents.

no theyre not mine!

Yet the retardicans want to shut down Planned Parenthood.
 

Platypus

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The birthrate is plummeting, so this thread doesn't surprise me lol.

I see alot of gay & lesbians who are successful, and have to find ways to blow their money. Then I see alot of middle-class family's with kids struggling. And then I see people on government handouts with like 12 kids as career welfare recipients. Makes me wonder what we are breeding the next generation to be like.

I'd love to rescue a foster kid or something. I have nothing but time and money for the rest of my life... but the state would rather let them bounce between homes then eventually start selling drugs on the street than to let some filthy lovely human have one.