If you found the perfect person for you

Sheepathon

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you don't change your sexuality because of someone. it doesn't matter if you're hetero or gay.
 

DAGTA

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Impossible for me. I cannot be sexually attracted to men. It's just not possible, I only find women attractive. It wasn't a decision, it's been that way as long as I can remember.

If a man 'can' switch, he's always been bisexual or gay.
 

thirtythree

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Originally posted by: Viper GTS
By definition they wouldn't be perfect then, eh?

Viper GTS
With the exception of that, obviously.
Originally posted by: Sheepathon
you don't change your sexuality because of someone. it doesn't matter if you're hetero or gay.
You don't change your sexuality. You just explore other aspects of it.
 

aidanjm

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I wouldn't 'go for it'. maybe I'd dip my toe in the water, so to speak, just to see what happens.
 

thirtythree

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Originally posted by: aidanjm
I wouldn't 'go for it'. maybe I'd dip my toe in the water, so to speak, just to see what happens.
Yeah yeah, that's what I mean. I think. Not sure what exactly you mean by "dip my toe in the water."
 

aidanjm

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Originally posted by: thirtythree
Originally posted by: aidanjm
I wouldn't 'go for it'. maybe I'd dip my toe in the water, so to speak, just to see what happens.
Yeah yeah, that's what I mean. I think. Not sure what exactly you mean by "dip my toe in the water."

go on a date, maybe kiss. not sure about the sex thing, tho.
 

thirtythree

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Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: thirtythree
Originally posted by: aidanjm
I wouldn't 'go for it'. maybe I'd dip my toe in the water, so to speak, just to see what happens.
Yeah yeah, that's what I mean. I think. Not sure what exactly you mean by "dip my toe in the water."

go on a date, maybe kiss. not sure about the sex thing, tho.
Yeah, me neither.

[EDIT] New question: if it wasn't so much trouble, do you think you'd give the sex you're not primarily attracted to a try (or, uhh, dip your toe in 'em?)? By not so much trouble, I mean there would be no stigma and you'd know how to meet the right people and how to act and such.
 

walla

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Originally posted by: thirtythree
Originally posted by: walla
Like no matter what way you answer this question, you can't win :)
Sure you can. There are all sorts of ways to win.


Ok, then if the perfect person is myself....maybe I would :)
 

aidanjm

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Originally posted by: thirtythree
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: thirtythree
Originally posted by: aidanjm
I wouldn't 'go for it'. maybe I'd dip my toe in the water, so to speak, just to see what happens.
Yeah yeah, that's what I mean. I think. Not sure what exactly you mean by "dip my toe in the water."

go on a date, maybe kiss. not sure about the sex thing, tho.
Yeah, me neither.

[EDIT] New question: if it wasn't so much trouble, do you think you'd give the sex you're not primarily attracted to a try (or, uhh, dip your toe in 'em?)? By not so much trouble, I mean there would be no stigma and you'd know how to meet the right people and how to act and such.

Um, another thing I wanted to say, I think it would be easier for me because I am gay. If I decided to try and go straight, hook up with a female, I'm sure there would be lots of social support for doing so (from e.g., christians, the church, etc.). It would be more difficult if you were heterosexual, because you're talking about experimenting with something that is frowned upon. Your friends might reject you, your boss might fire you, people will look at you with dismay and disgust, etc.

As for your second question, I am kind of freaked out by the female body, I have to admit, so it would be a hair-raising experience to be in close proximity to a vagina/ clitoris. :D I think it would be a 'scary' experience, as there would be so many unknowns.

 

chrisms

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This is the stupidest question I've ever read, from a heterosexual standpoint at least. I get a long with many guys, because we're guys. I've been closer to guys (non-phsyically) than I have been to girls because we can relate to eachother more, but that does not mean I will ever feel the urge to kiss them or something.

If you have to ask yourself this question you are either gay or bisexual. Not that there is anything wrong with that
 

DAGTA

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If you are even capable of 'dipping your toe in', you have repressed a bisexual or gay nature. If you are hetero, it's just not possible unless you force yourself. There is NO attraction, no urges, etc. In fact, the idea of kissing another guy is repulsive to me.

Most women that kiss other women are only doing it for the attention. Those women are huge attention whores that will do almost anything for more attention from men.
 

thirtythree

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Originally posted by: aidanjm
Um, another thing I wanted to say, I think it would be easier for me because I am gay. If I decided to try and go straight, hook up with a female, I'm sure there would be lots of social support for doing so (from e.g., christians, the church, etc.). It would be more difficult if you were heterosexual, because you're talking about experimenting with something that is frowned upon. Your friends might reject you, your boss might fire you, people will look at you with dismay and disgust, etc.

As for your second question, I am kind of freaked out by the female body, I have to admit, so it would be a hair-raising experience to be in close proximity to a vagina/ clitoris. :D I think it would be a 'scary' experience, as there would be so many unknowns.
I'm sure plenty of heterosexual males are similarly freaked out by the female body.