if you ask a girl out and she says "ill let you know"

[gorcorps]

by having the stones to ask you put yourself above 80% of these chuckleheads

you're doing well OP, keep at it

 

[schmuckley]

I wouldn't hold my breath on hearing from her.

 

[BTRY B 529th FA BN]

What does "ask her out" mean to you? I never ask a girl out, I'll ask her if she want's to go out and do a particular thing. Asking her out when I was younger meant to me let's be a couple.. this was years and years ago like almost up until out of high-school..

 

[Demoralized]

It means she's thought about you in that way before but was never really sure about it, until you asked her out. It usually means no but there is a chance of a yes. My best guess is that she is consulting friends on your proposal.

 

[JManInPhoenix]

It's a big no for that one. Now man up and ask some more out until you get one

 

[Lean L]

It means she's thought about you in that way before but was never really sure about it, until you asked her out. It usually means no but there is a chance of a yes. My best guess is that she is consulting friends on your proposal.

This... I can't tell if being serious or trolling the OP.

To the op: It's a cue to stop thinking about it and consider it a sunk prospect. There is an off chance that it could still happen (I don't know how curt the response was or if you paraphrased) but even then, it's not worth taking more seriously as a dinner with a friend.

 

[phucheneh]

I'd hit that.

With a claw hammer until she was dead.

Why do the ugly ones never die young?

 

[jagec]

It means she's thought about you in that way before but was never really sure about it, until you asked her out. It usually means no but there is a chance of a yes. My best guess is that she is consulting friends on your proposal.

OP has a chance if (a)all of her other prospectives bail on her and she has to work her way down the list to him, or (b)her friends tell her that OP is very very rich.:biggrin:

 

[Pantoot]

Just to preempt your next post, when your mom says "we'll see" when you ask to go to somewhere, that means no too.

 

[HTFOff]

thoughts?

post the pics and ill let you know.

But it depends, was it a stone cold, monotonous "ill let you know"

or was she grinning, blushing and smiling "ill let you know"

Since you made a thread about it i'm guessing the former?

 

[Jeff7]

You need to do something outrageuos to draw her attention.

Are we approaching the treacherous waters of asking for her to stick out her left hand?

 

[IronWing]

Are we approaching the treacherous waters of asking for her to stick out her left hand?

I was thinking he should shoot Ronald Reagan. Maybe just write pome instead.

 

[homebrew2ny]

Stop letting your ego and pride get in the way. You asked a girl out, she wanted time to consider it, and then said yes. Are you so narcissistic that if a girl does not pass out over sheer exhilaration at the mention of you that you need to pass her up? Get over yourself, go out and have a good time. Let the chips fall where they may there after...

 

[mikeford]

What would help, if its not just a troll, is more information like what exactly did you ask, and was she laughing as she walked away.

 

[holden j caufield]

"I'll let you know" is bad. If they're really into you they'll go out with you even if they have to cancel something else to make it happen.

+1, though the tone can mean a few different things.

 

[Red Squirrel]

She has not figured out the best way to approach saying no yet, so this is to buy her time to think of something.

 

[rudeguy]

She has not figured out the best way to approach saying no yet, so this is to buy her time to think of something.

"I have aids"

 

[DigDog]

"i'll let you NO"

 

[shortylickens]

I know its not gonna happen. I dont even bother with her any more.
I am also suspicious of women that agree to a date too easily. Like they dont wanna discuss when & where, and they dont verify those things.
It means they plan to stand me up.


And they dont do it to spare my feelings either. Never let a woman tell you that later on. She's full of shit. They dont give a damn about your feelings if they stand you up or blow you off after asking for a date. They do it to avoid responsibility.

Of course, now you know not to waste your time with such a woman.

 

[SP33Demon]

That was pretty funny on that show. But somebody remind me again why this Zooey chick is supposed to be the wet dream of every nerd? Not impressed.

 

[Doppel]

not into you. move on.

this

 

[SlitheryDee]

That was pretty funny on that show. But somebody remind me again why this Zooey chick is supposed to be the wet dream of every nerd? Not impressed.

She's pretty, but not so pretty that you can't imagine yourself with her. Isn't that basically the attraction of all these girl next door types?

 

[dbk]

that means come back later and bug her some more.. she wants to be chased

 

[dbk]

That was pretty funny on that show. But somebody remind me again why this Zooey chick is supposed to be the wet dream of every nerd? Not impressed.

The other girl is way hotter..

 

[mizzou]

She said no, in a nice way. Don't fall into the friend zone, young padawan.