if you ask a girl out and she says "ill let you know"

jammix

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do you disregard her and not go even if she lets you know shell go?

i feel im just a 2nd option at the point unless the girl has a valid excuse and offers to reschedule..thoughts? :confused:
 

SaurusX

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You know how when you say "maybe" to something you generally mean "no"? Same situation here.
 

SlitheryDee

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"I'll let you know" is bad. If they're really into you they'll go out with you even if they have to cancel something else to make it happen.
 

rudeguy

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Don't get
Hurt
If she chooses someone else.
There are going to
Be many more after her. It will be ok.
 

poopaskoopa

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If no offer to reschedule is made, then you're 3rd option or below:
1. Some other guy.
2. Washing hair.
[...] other things that she'd rather do.
X. You.

Move on. There's always someone else who will say yes.
 

Scotteq

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do you disregard her and not go even if she lets you know shell go?

i feel im just a 2nd option at the point unless the girl has a valid excuse and offers to reschedule..thoughts? :confused:

That means "No". Just that she was being nice about it by not telling you flat out.
 

HN

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Hugo Drax

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do you disregard her and not go even if she lets you know shell go?

i feel im just a 2nd option at the point unless the girl has a valid excuse and offers to reschedule..thoughts? :confused:

She already said no.