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I hooked up with a girl last week who, after fornication, asked "so you don't have herpes or anything do you?". The answer was no, but certainly would have been a little late if it had been yes.

Bag it....always.
<---- should follow his own advice more often.
 
Originally posted by: raanemaan
How honest would someone be. Her Do you have any STD's. Him thinking he might get lucky. No . 🙂
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If I knew I had a STD I would make it known early on...probably long before intimacy (if that's the obvious direction we're going). I would HOPE she'd do the same. But, as others have mentioned, I've heard stories of people getting their "revenge" on some people they dislike with their STD. Fvckin sickos.
 
Originally posted by: Gooberlx2
Originally posted by: raanemaan
How honest would someone be. Her Do you have any STD's. Him thinking he might get lucky. No . 🙂
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If I knew I had a STD I would make it known early on...probably long before intimacy (if that's the obvious direction we're going). I would HOPE she'd do the same. But, as others have mentioned, I've heard stories of people getting their "revenge" on some people they dislike with their STD. Fvckin sickos.
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I agree that if it was heading in that direction I would make it known but not everybody is so honest.
 
Originally posted by: DP
STD's, Before you start really dating girls or getting closer to them, do you just outright ask them if they have any STD or anything like that? or would that be considered rude?

just wanting to see what some responses will say.
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Um....NO

"Hi, my name is spidey. Since we've been on a date do you have any STDs?"

<SLAP!>

for me that stuff comes up once we've gone at it a few times. afterwards I'll just say "hey, by the way...I'm totally clean and don't sleep around"

They buy it everytime.
:evil:
 
Well it all depends on trust. If you're just hittin up the girl for the sake of some quick ass poundin, ask her, she'd probably like to know your status too.

If it's more of a 'closer' relationship, I'd play it safe for awhile until you both decide to have unprotected sex, then she too will want to ask, so it's appropriate.

My gf and I both trust each other more than anything. Neither of us even bothered asking the question since I don't want to give her anything and know she's not going to give me anything either. We've been playing raw for the last three and half years and I still have no STD's. The same went with my ex's. It's all about trust, and of course, I pull out before I ejac when playing raw.
 
Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3
Originally posted by: onza
i can see it already

DP - so like...... do you have AIDS?


HAHAHHA
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Everyone has AIDS!
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:music:
Everyone has AIDS!
AIDS AIDS AIDS!
AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS!
Everyone has AIDS!

And so this is the end of our story
And everyone is dead from AIDS
It took from me my best friend
My only true pal
My only bright star (he died of AIDS)

Well I'm gonna march on Washington
Lead the fight and charge the brigades
There's a hero inside of all of us
I'll make them see everyone has AIDS

My father (AIDS!)
My sister (AIDS!)
My uncle and my cousin and her best friend (AIDS AIDS AIDS!)
The gays and the straights
And the white and the spades

Everyone has AIDS!
My grandma and my dog 'ol blue (AIDS AIDS AIDS)
The pope has got it and so do you (AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS)
C'mon everybody we got quilting to do (AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS)
We gotta break down these baricades, everyone has.....AIDS!!!
:music:
 
Originally posted by: deathkoba
Well it all depends on trust. If you're just hittin up the girl for the sake of some quick ass poundin, ask her, she'd probably like to know your status too.

If it's more of a 'closer' relationship, I'd play it safe for awhile until you both decide to have unprotected sex, then she too will want to ask, so it's appropriate.

My gf and I both trust each other more than anything. Neither of us even bothered asking the question since I don't want to give her anything and know she's not going to give me anything either. We've been playing raw for the last three and half years and I still have no STD's. The same went with my ex's. It's all about trust, and of course, I pull out before I ejac when playing raw.
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You want a baby? Pulling out doesn't significantly lower the risk of getting her pregnant.I hope she is on the pill...
 
both get STD tests
show them to each other

she prob would appreciate it

note this approach really only works in serious relationships before fornication
😉
 
Originally posted by: cyclistca
Well certainly don't do what I did with my current girl. We were just making out and there were no plans to go any further then that. Anyway well they did and we certainly had not talked about stuff like STD. So there we were buck naked and we both look at each other and ask "So have you had any STD?". We both answered no and went at it like rabbits.
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you mean, do you know if you have STD?
 
Sure it does and has worked for me countless times. Also to my luck, my gf does have an ovarian problem and isn't easy to impregnate. (which is one of the reasons why she's rather asexual to begin with) In fact so was my ex gf.
 
:-/

I never asked a female this in my life. Maybe it's time to start asking. Though I know I am clean, I guess its too presumptions to assume others are the same.
 
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