That was actually pretty smart of ASUS : 1.35 volts is a very conservative setting that will probably be stable as a rock at 3.6 ghz. The motherboard is actually giving your cpu a little more than it needs for 3.6 probably, but it is very likely to be stable. It's within Intel's specs for safety as well.
Yes to your question. I have your exact same motherboard and the exact same stepping of CPU. Set the CPU voltage mode to "OFFSET" instead.
Here's a setting that will probably work for you : 185 BCLK, OFFSET of ~0.225 volts. (you might need a little bit less voltage but that's what my cpu needs)
DO NOT TRY TO BOOT WITH THE SETTING IT AUTOMATICALLY FILLS IN FOR OFFSET. DUE TO SOME KIND OF BUG IN ASUS's MATH, IT GIVES YOUR CPU WAY TOO MUCH VOLTAGE.
DO NOT SET OFFSET TO MORE THAN 0.3 VOLTS MAXIMUM.
Leave speedstep enabled, can even turn on the C1E power management feature as well. (that is buried in another menu a couple tabs over in the BIOS)
Enable the motherboard fan control, it really quiets things down when you are not under load. Put it on "turbo" and adjust the parameters using the "Fan Xpert" utility that comes with the motherboard.
To test it, so far the harshest program I have found is called "OCCT". An 8 hour stability test using "CPU : Linpack" has proven the hardest for my machine to survive without crashing sometime during the run. I had to do a lot of tweaking to make it stable for 8 hours on OCCT:Linpack, even though it was rock solid on everything else like prime95 and Intel Burn Test. It is stable now, I just finished 30 hours worth of testing.
There's a fair number of other BIOS settings you must set, reply to this thread if you want help.