imported_Tomato
Diamond Member
It looks like so much fun.
Peace,
Dezign
Peace,
Dezign
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I wish I was in love.
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mithrandir2001
Diamond Member
Watch "Amelie" for inspiration.
imported_Tomato
Diamond Member
How can you tell?
Peace,
Dezign
Zenmervolt
Elite member
It looks that way because it is. 🙂 You've got to make a few false-starts before you get there though.
ZV
FelixDeCat
Lifer
Everyone wants it but noone wants to give it.
Happiness is an illusion where the focus is on self.
Happiness is an illusion where the focus is on self.
globalstud
Banned
Life is frail. Being in love sucks especially if the one you love dies.
Zenmervolt
Elite member
And I used to think that I was pessimistic.
To the two of you who said it sucks, you're going to have awfully depressing lives if you truly believe that.
To the middle guy, you have an overly dim view of human nature.
To all three of you, enjoy your lonely lives. 😛
ZV
globalstud
Banned
Mine did die idiot.
Zenmervolt
Elite member
So you'd rather have never had what you did have just to avoid the pain now? (If this is not what you're implying, I'm sorry, but from my view it sure as hell looks as though you're implying it.) You're not the only one who has lost a loved one you know. The death of a loved one does create more pain than anything else could ever create, but does that negate the value of the love? I answer that it doesn't. Love always has a value above and beyond the pain that it is capable of creating. To focus on the pain is to inhibit growth. Cherish the good memories, but don't lose yourself in despair and refuse to acknowledge the possability of that type of joy in the future. I don't like it when people give up on the idea of love. I had a good friend back in HS who decided that love sucked after his girlfriend dumped him so he drove out onto the highway, stopped his car on the side of the road, got out, and stepped into the path of a semi. Ever since I've been wary of that attitude, it's destructive. Regardless of my views on that attitude though, I must offer my sincerest condolences for your loss.
For the record, you'd have gotten a very different response the first time had you told your story instead of simply stating that love sucks. Your presentation bore the mark of a very misanthropic person whether you intended that or not.
ZV
Alphathree33
Platinum Member
*Agrees profusely*
globalstud
Banned
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You're the one that didn't attempt to extrapolate too much from my first post before bashing me. Whatever you idiot. Now STFU in regards to me.
Alphathree33
Platinum Member
If you ask me several mistakes a lot of people make are as follows:
(1) You might find a girl that likes you. This does not mean EVERY GIRL likes you. Girls have very specific preferences and you have to find ones that have preferences that are favorable to you. You have your own preferences and they might not favor the girl that favors you. This is a problem. Don't give up.
(2) Don't change who you are around girls. Do you have friends? Do they like you? Okay good, girls will like that personality too. (Even if you're a complete ahole jerk moron or the nicest, smartest guy on earth, there are girls for both!) Any way you look at it though, all girls like confidence.
Want to experiment with the confidence thing? Find two girls that like you that you don't like (or just dont see a future with). Try your very best to do everything for one of them and be their slave in life. Be the nicest person on earth. Compilment her. Hold doors for her. Be completely submissive to everything and never assert yourself.
Around the other? Act like she's just there and not different from anyone else. You don't care if she's around one way or another. Make fun of her (NOT her looks). When you ask her to do something, ask her last and make it seem like she could 'tag along' if she wanted to. Other times specify exactly what you want her to do. If she says no, act like you don't care and leave anyway.
Guaranteed you'll get waaay farther with girl two. Strategy two does NOT work on mature girls so don't attempt it in that case. Mature girls = be polite, funny, spontaneous. 🙂
It's just an interesting experiment, I don't actually recommend strategy two it can blow up in your face.
(3) DO NOT PLACE PEOPLE ON PEDASTALS. Just because you see some girl who has this perky, outgoing personality and a perfect face and a perfect, tanned body does NOT mean that she is perfect. She's just really close! If you were to actually get to know this girl, you would find she is an every day person who just happens to make your jaw drop to the floor when you look at her from any angle at any distance in any lighting in any clothing or lack thereof. Rightio.
Okay I'm done blabbling.
(1) You might find a girl that likes you. This does not mean EVERY GIRL likes you. Girls have very specific preferences and you have to find ones that have preferences that are favorable to you. You have your own preferences and they might not favor the girl that favors you. This is a problem. Don't give up.
(2) Don't change who you are around girls. Do you have friends? Do they like you? Okay good, girls will like that personality too. (Even if you're a complete ahole jerk moron or the nicest, smartest guy on earth, there are girls for both!) Any way you look at it though, all girls like confidence.
Want to experiment with the confidence thing? Find two girls that like you that you don't like (or just dont see a future with). Try your very best to do everything for one of them and be their slave in life. Be the nicest person on earth. Compilment her. Hold doors for her. Be completely submissive to everything and never assert yourself.
Around the other? Act like she's just there and not different from anyone else. You don't care if she's around one way or another. Make fun of her (NOT her looks). When you ask her to do something, ask her last and make it seem like she could 'tag along' if she wanted to. Other times specify exactly what you want her to do. If she says no, act like you don't care and leave anyway.
Guaranteed you'll get waaay farther with girl two. Strategy two does NOT work on mature girls so don't attempt it in that case. Mature girls = be polite, funny, spontaneous. 🙂
It's just an interesting experiment, I don't actually recommend strategy two it can blow up in your face.
(3) DO NOT PLACE PEOPLE ON PEDASTALS. Just because you see some girl who has this perky, outgoing personality and a perfect face and a perfect, tanned body does NOT mean that she is perfect. She's just really close! If you were to actually get to know this girl, you would find she is an every day person who just happens to make your jaw drop to the floor when you look at her from any angle at any distance in any lighting in any clothing or lack thereof. Rightio.
Okay I'm done blabbling.
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