unfortunately it is for real. I had no idea it can get this bad. Its to the point of stress/depression that its causing physical problems (severe body aches/headaches constantly)
unfortunately it is for real. I had no idea it can get this bad. Its to the point of stress/depression that its causing physical problems (severe body aches/headaches constantly)
At my work we also have a whats called an EAP (employee assistance program). I would recommend checking it out, at least it will give you someone to talk to.
JulesMaximus
No Lifer
- Jul 3, 2003
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I wouldn't say that. It just takes time and dealing with your emotions. Some people do it with the help of a professional but most just deal with it and get on with life. It does take time though, sometimes many many months before the initial pain starts to fade but it will happen. As long as you aren't contemplating something drastic you can usually work through it on your own.
Sorry to hear of your pain and suffering though.
Darkstar757
Diamond Member
- Feb 1, 2003
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Hey buddy I been there
Im at work and dont have the url but soon as I get home im going to send you it.
Dont be ashamed its not your fault if you have insurance set up a appointment ASAP.
They will get you right back on track bud.
PM me if you need someone to talk to.
Im at work and dont have the url but soon as I get home im going to send you it.
Dont be ashamed its not your fault if you have insurance set up a appointment ASAP.
They will get you right back on track bud.
PM me if you need someone to talk to.
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Were you the guy whose wife left with some random stranger on a cruise? If so, I'd be depressed too. On top of that losing your mother would be too much
yep.
Please talk to a doctor, Spidey... its not a mental problem or a weakness, it is what it is. It can be chemical or hormonal, or it can just be a tough time that counselling can really help you through.
BTW, this place is getting rediculous. Even just a year ago if somone posted that they were severely depressed and that they had lost both wife and mother in the past couple months, the ATOT community would offer advice, comfort, and what help we could. Now he gets a pile of:
st@b yourself
commit sepuku
be a man!
wuss.
want some cheese with that whine?
are you pregnant?
Karma is a beeyatch people. Just hope you never experience what Spidey is going through. And if you do, hope for better people around you (even online) than you have been to him.
BTW, this place is getting rediculous. Even just a year ago if somone posted that they were severely depressed and that they had lost both wife and mother in the past couple months, the ATOT community would offer advice, comfort, and what help we could. Now he gets a pile of:
st@b yourself
commit sepuku
be a man!
wuss.
want some cheese with that whine?
are you pregnant?
Karma is a beeyatch people. Just hope you never experience what Spidey is going through. And if you do, hope for better people around you (even online) than you have been to him.
Darkstar757
Diamond Member
- Feb 1, 2003
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I totally agree
Spidey pay no attention to them.
trust me there are many people in this world who care about you and would love to help.
I am one of those people. So dont ever be afraid to ask for help.
Link? I need to get up to speed on this.Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Were you the guy whose wife left with some random stranger on a cruise? If so, I'd be depressed too. On top of that losing your mother would be too much
yep.
Darkstar757
Diamond Member
- Feb 1, 2003
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Just grab your ballsack and forgive yourself for not living up to the standards you set for yourself. And if that doesn't work, ride it out. Sometimes we face much darkness in order to see the light that is gained from the experience.
I would put my foot in your ass for that but I fear it would interfere with the mod's, so I'll digress.
Originally posted by: Sifl
Link? I need to get up to speed on this.Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Were you the guy whose wife left with some random stranger on a cruise? If so, I'd be depressed too. On top of that losing your mother would be too much
yep.
SP33Demon
Lifer
- Jun 22, 2001
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The same attitude the Columbine killers' parents had towards their sons... the "you're a man, you can't cry" idea perpetuated in our country stifles male human emotion, which can then manifest itself as rage or depression. Thanks for perpetuating this ideaology, your contribution to society today is at an all time high!
FelixDeCat
Lifer
- Aug 4, 2000
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Its definately a love thing. Back in the summer/fall of 2002, when I was 32 just like you, I went through the same thing. I realized I aint gettin any younger and things havent turned out exactly the way I wanted. Major depression along with a lots and lots of problems. Had to make a lot of changes physically, financially, emotionally, spiritually.
Things just have to play out and some major things may have to change in your life to give you new interest in it. Its kind of funny in a way because some problems I still have but I feel naturally good anyway and they dont get me down, because if Im going down, Im going down laughing about it - not crying.
ps. the major physical change - built up to 50 pushups a day, had lasik done after 23 years of glasses, ran track, improved batting swing, etc...
Things just have to play out and some major things may have to change in your life to give you new interest in it. Its kind of funny in a way because some problems I still have but I feel naturally good anyway and they dont get me down, because if Im going down, Im going down laughing about it - not crying.
ps. the major physical change - built up to 50 pushups a day, had lasik done after 23 years of glasses, ran track, improved batting swing, etc...
Originally posted by: xEDIT409
Originally posted by: Sifl
Link? I need to get up to speed on this.Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Were you the guy whose wife left with some random stranger on a cruise? If so, I'd be depressed too. On top of that losing your mother would be too much
yep.
http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview.cfm?catid=38&threadid=1235928
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
The same attitude the Columbine killers' parents had towards their sons... the "you're a man, you can't cry" idea perpetuated in our country stifles male human emotion, which can then manifest itself as rage or depression. Thanks for perpetuating this ideaology, your contribution to society today is at an all time high!
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