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OutHouse

Lifer
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Originally posted by: QurazyQuisp
Originally posted by: Citrix
Originally posted by: child of wonder
This is exactly why my kids' phones will have texting disabled when they're old enough to have them.

Not seen as popular because you don't have texting? Too fucking bad. Grow a pair and stop bowing to the whims of society.

From what the CSR's from both T-Mobile and Verizon have told me you can not turn of txt.

You most certainly can. One of my best friends had texts turned off (Verizon) both incoming and outgoing. If I send something to him, he will never receive it.

A year or so ago I had texts turned off on my phone with AT&T, you just call them and ask for texts to be turned off, it wasn't difficult.

stop being a snide ass with your answers. I did call both T-Mobile and Verizon and they said noits not an option with pre-paid phones.



 

ZOOYUKA

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Originally posted by: So
Originally posted by: ZOOYUKA
Why wouldn't you be monitoring your daughters cell phone usage in the first place? Limit or no limit you should be aware of your daughters phone useage. Consider yourself lucky if all get is a large phone bill. She could've of been texting a 30 year old dude. Do you even know that she wasn't? Kids will do stupid things when given the opportunity.

At some point you have to trust your kids to make their own decisions or you're going to raise will farrell in his latest movie.

You can trust your child and be atleast somewhat aware what they are doing at the same time. Also, since when does a child get to make a decision when you are footing the bill?

 

jonks

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Originally posted by: Citrix
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Citrix
Originally posted by: Brainonska511
Originally posted by: SphinxnihpS
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Jeeze.

Get her the unlimited plan.

For $85 bucks a month I have unlimited email/data/text messages, voicemail, caller ID, 450 anytime minutes, 250 long distance minutes, unlimited calling after 6pm, unlimited incoming minutes at anytime.

What a bargain... (where's the rollseyes emoticon the size of Alaska?) Are you a rep or something?

What on earth does a kid need a cell phone for anyway? I seem to recall growing up without them.

Computers? Who needs them when they're growing up. My grandparents grew up fine without them. And those cars, my great-grandparents didn't have them growing up... etc.

Times change. Deal with it. And the use a payphone nonsense - many are falling apart, being permanently removed, or just unsupported since they cost the phone companies more money than they bring in.

For a TEENAGER a cell phone is a LUXURY.

Are you kidding? You consider a $30 dollar a month recurring expense to be a luxury?

:laugh:

I got my first cell phone 10 years ago, when I was 13, because it was mutually convenient for me and my parents, it was safe, and I didn't have to use a payphone.

It's prudent, and in the states with how cheap plans are the value you get for safety vs. cost makes it an almost brain dead decision.

i said luxury not a luxury goods....

I think you have it backwards. For the teenager the phone is a privilege, the person it's a luxury for is the parent. If your kid has a phone you can call them and know where they are at all times. Before you had to take their word for it. Now you can gps their ass. Taking away your kids phone will inconvenience you about as much as it does them. It's like taking away their car. Sure they can't drive anywhere, but now you have to drive their ass places they need to go.
 

pstylesss

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Originally posted by: slag
Originally posted by: ZeroIQ
Call verizon and say you had no idea this would happen, blah blah blah, say you want to upgrade to the unlimited text plan and they should wave the charges. They did when my brother did that.

To defend your daughter a little... it's really easy to send 4k text messages.

edit: make her pay for it... learn her some responsibility.

No, really, its not easy to send 4k text messages in a month.

5-10 a day, maybe... but 4k a month? thats just insane.

How old are you? Different people prefer different methods of communication. I have a blackberry and I have sent/received 50 texts from 7.30 this morning (it is now 3). I also have been sending emails and talking to people on GTalk on the blackberry and blackberry messenger.

And whoever countered my argument above should realize that it's summer so no school. I did assume 16 hours up and 8 hours of sleep. And even at school you have 5 minute passing periods and lunch. Plus its easy to text during school.

If he gets the unlimited plan then just drop her minute allowance.
 

BlackTigers

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Jan 15, 2006
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And if she has a Qwerty phone, texting for a teenage girl (how old, btw?) goes so fast, with most of the replies being "haha" or "oh," which take all of five seconds to write and send. =/
 

thomsbrain

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Originally posted by: So
Take her phone away, tell her no phone until she pays for it herself? And make her build up a $500 kitty in case she overspends again, since even if she gets a job, you'll be responsible for the bill so long as she's a dependent.

This.
 

nerp

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Dec 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
130 outgoing messages a day. If each one took 30 seconds to compose. And it took her 30 seconds to read each incoming. Your daughter is spending a minimum of 2 hours a day staring at her cell phone screen.

That's about the point I'd ship her ass off to private school in Finland.

Absolutley.

"How was your vacation?"

"OK, I guess."

"What did you see on your trip?"

"A blinking cursor."
 

nerp

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Dec 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: Steve
I'm afraid to even touch a payphone these days, God knows what could be on it that I'd catch.

Nothing more than the air you breathe. Remember, when you smell someone's fart, you're really eating fecal matter. When you stand near someone in line, you're eating their skin cells.

Enjoy!
 

AlienCraft

Lifer
Nov 23, 2002
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Originally posted by: 2Xtreme21
Originally posted by: TallBill
Originally posted by: 2Xtreme21
I'll say it right now... there is no need for a kid to have a cell phone. I don't care if you give me the lame ass "she has to let me know when soccer practice is over" excuse... there is always the pay phone that I got away with using every single day after band / hockey practice. Driving? Get a "car phone" that is a pay-as-you-go one for emergencies. If someone can give me one justifiable reason for a child needing one, I'll gladly concede my point.

Most places outside of a city don't have pay phones anymore. I can't even remember the last time that I've seen one, probably at the airport last month.

I'd say most schools would have one. I know ours had a few in the lobby and 2 outside.
The phone may still be there, but service is another story.

 

0roo0roo

No Lifer
Sep 21, 2002
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cellphone companies love teens...i'm sure this always happens and ist why they don't offer a limit
 

rh71

No Lifer
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so how many of those text messages consisted of 3 letters like lol or omg?
 

Jeff7

Lifer
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Well there was that one article recently where they said that one a per-byte basis, text messages cost several times more than getting data from Hubble?

Here we go.

?The bottom line is texting is at least 4 times more expensive than transmitting data from Hubble, and is likely to be substantially more than that."

Bottled water, and text messaging. Two grand ways of getting massive profit out of something simple. I wonder if the cost for text messaging started out as some kind of bet among the accountants.
"No way man, you can't charge that much for a text message! That's like 1000x the cost of voice data, for the same bandwidth!"

"You wanna make a bet on that? Huh? I bet I can charge <however much text messages cost> and people will actually pay it."

"Bull. Shit. You're on."


Awhile later, one of them was a good bit richer.
 

episodic

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I gave my son a tracfone. I told him it stays in his pocket unless it is an emergency or he is stranded. I pay under 10 a month to add 50 minutes a month and keep it active. It has accumulated over 800 minutes, and we've used it a handfull of tiems - all of which we were really glad it was there. He understands it is an emergency tool, not one to gab for hours to his friends on. Then I got him his own skypein and and skypeout number and a wireless headphone/mic - he sits in his room for hours talking to friends on that - cost - about 7 bucks a month.

 

Steve

Lifer
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Originally posted by: grrl
Originally posted by: ZeroIQ

To defend your daughter a little... it's really easy to send 4k text messages.

Maybe if you have no life.

Knowing teenagers these days, that volume is indication of having a life - what it is today.
 

Bateluer

Lifer
Jun 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: So
Take her phone away, tell her no phone until she pays for it herself? And make her build up a $500 kitty in case she overspends again, since even if she gets a job, you'll be responsible for the bill so long as she's a dependent.

Bingo. She's evidently texting during school, when she should be paying attention.
 

jackace

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That sucks man, but your bill is cheap compared to the one I saw when I was selling cell phones. This dad bought his daughters a shared cell phone plan and put no text msging on the plan, back then it was normal to not get text msging, but the phones the girls picked out sent text msgs. Poor bastard got a ream of paper (literally a ream or larger) for a bill. All in all the total was close to $8k. He came into our store asking what we could do about it. We had not sold him the plan, but we dealt with verizon. We called them and they knocked the bill down a lot, but it was still over $1k he had to pay.
 

BoomerD

No Lifer
Feb 26, 2006
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Nah, go ahead and kill her. No jury would convict you...it'd be considered "justifiable homicide."


My adult daughter texts like a fiend...I was with her one day at the Metro PCS store and they said she averages 5000 text messages per month. :shocked:
Now I know why she pays for unlimited texting...
 

Pacfanweb

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Jan 2, 2000
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No way any kid needs to be on the phone that much, texting or otherwise. I don't care how fast she is at texting, she still had to be using it for a couple of hours for that many messages.

I'd cut the texting off completely. Nobody needs it. They have a cell phone...that's already slack by itself, it's even more slack not to call someone and actually TALK to them.
 

Steve

Lifer
May 2, 2004
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Originally posted by: Bateluer
Originally posted by: So
Take her phone away, tell her no phone until she pays for it herself? And make her build up a $500 kitty in case she overspends again, since even if she gets a job, you'll be responsible for the bill so long as she's a dependent.

Bingo. She's evidently texting during school, when she should be paying attention.

School in July?