Originally posted by: johnjohn320
I'm not a complete and total n00b at cooking, my girlfriend and I used to cook a lot. Now we're long distance, and she's not around most days, I'm realizing how much of our cuisine resulted from me following her directions (she's a great cook). She bought me a couple of beginner-type cookbooks, (A Man/A Can/A Plan, Betty Crocker's Home Cookbook, etc). I've got some basic supplies and whatnot. I guess my reason for posting is asking all you good cooks out there how you got started and subsequently improved. A lot of trial and error? Follow a recipe or improvise? Discover ways to gain efficiency so you don't spend 3 hours cooking a meal that takes 15 mins to eat? I work 7 days a week and am pretty busy, so I'm interested in things that don't take forever. I'm just tired of eating out.
I really got started when my Italian wife (who is a good cook) had to leave myself and my young son behind to go visit her elderly father back in Italy. This was 8 months ago. Cooking is now my new hobby.
3 weeks on our own, and no way I was buying crap in a cardboard to heat up. Once in a while? OK. Days on end all in a row? No effing way.
Yeah, I had been watching cooking shows like Alton Brown where he really explains what's going on. It's helpful and gives you confidence and ideas.
I consider recipes a 'suggestion'. Don't be afraid to change 'em. I suggest you use your imagination. That's what I do. I think (or imagine) what I want to eat, how it should taste etc. I rarely use any recipes anymore. I just make 'em on the fly. Use your taste, smell and your imagination. Hell, I probably couldn't identify many spices or herbs by name in a taste test, and I don't care. When I'm cooking something I go through the spice rack smelling them and pick out the ones I wanna add to my dish.
I think your challenges are gonna be finding the time to shop, and then cooking for just one person (yourself) brings the 'portions' into play.
In my case the grocery store is on my way home. Pretty much everyday I stop by to see what looks to eat, or what's on sale. I hate having a bunch of stuff in my fridge.
Buying smaller portions is expensive; sometimes not even possible.
You may need to use your freezer, or find ways to use the item in multiple dishes. E.g., a bag of potatoes - baked, mashed (sometime put shredded cheese in, fried onions etc), sliced and fried etc. Or ground beef - hamburger, salsbury steak (basically hamburger with gravy on it served over rice or pasta), bolognese type sauce (ground beef with green peppers diced carrots simmered in tomato based sauce and served over pasta), or in stuffed peppers etc.
Don't be afraid to experiment. My family's never refused to eat, or complained about, any one of my 'experiments'. The only things that are really fatal in terms of making edible dishs are under-cooking or burning them. Don't be afraid to sample, or cut into the meat to see if it's done enough etc.
Just watch what you're doing. Watch the food.
Start out with one or two cooking techniques. I mean, grilling, frying, sauteing, baking, stir frying, using a pressure cooker etc. As you get comfortable, add another one and you get all the new dishes it brings.
What's quick?
Stir fry, pan searing meat or fish, and grilling.
What takes me the most time?
Food prep. Peeling potatoes, carrots, slicing and dicing. Clean up can take a while too. Consider one-dish meals.
While baking and simmering pasta-type sauces takes a longer time, once you get passed the food prep part and you put it in the oven, or set the pan on stove simmering you can go about your business. You don't really need to check in on that stuff often.
Don't be afraid to trust your instincts and experiment. I think that's the most important thing. As I said, unless you burn the heck out of it, it'll be alright and you'll learn a bunch.
One other thing - organization. I set out my ingredients, spices, and pots/pans etc before I start cooking. My wife has tendancy to get into the middle of something and find we are all out of some ingredient then I have to run to the store. I hate that crap. When you set out your stuff, you won't find yourself going "Oh snap. I forgot we're outta this ot I forgot to add in the xxxx".
If you want any recipes, just google. There are a ton of sites out with them. Don't settle on the first recipe you see either. Some are more complicated, some have exotic ingredients etc. There are many ays to skin the cat (make the dish) so find the one you prefer.
Good luck with it.
Fern