For beginners, check out sites like
Horizon Hobby. They are the makers/distributors of helis like the CX2 and CP products. Affordable, great parts support and actually fly very well.
The CX and CX2 are very much beginner helis. You will literally open the box, charge the batt and fly. Yes, there are cheaper little helis out there, but watch out for parts support. If you crash and can't get parts, they don't make very good paper weights.
If you don't want to start w/ something like the CX/CX2 and wanna jump right into something like the T-Rex 450 or larger, get a sim. The sim costs ~ $200, but trust me, you'll save money and a lot of frustration in the long run.
If you do step right up to something like a T-Rex 450 or similar, do yourself another favor and buy the kit. By building the heli you will learn a lot more about it, its upkeep and how to repair it. You'll know just what to order when you need parts and how to tweak when you need to.
I own and fly a lot of helis, work a shop on the side and have built well over 100 different brands/models/types. If you have questions or would like some suggestions drop me a line.
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