finally someone talking some sense:
Fans in a Hifi system = BAD VERY BAD!!
So what do you do:
slower celeron or VIA C3 processor with a temperature controlled HSF
mATX board with integrated LAN
A graphics card with a good TV-Out, best is ATI and you don't need the fastest... get a slower one with passive heatsink for less noise!
256 MB PC133 (if you can get more than use the extra to make a ramdrive to load mp3s into it at startup so the HDD can power down afterwards - noise killer!)
a large HDD but as already said, only 5400 RPMs
Soundcard - SoundBlaster Live is OK
Now to the good stuff!
Remote: Do how Linuxers do it! They take a standard Infrared receiver for the serial port and have interpreter software find out the commands from any remote controll that you wish! This also work in windows, take any remote control and use the interpreter software WinLIRC. The commands from winLirc are then passed on to freeware control programms like GIRDER or IRassistant. These will command the media player to do anything you whish... even makros are programmable (eject the disk, shut down windows, convert disc to MP3, copy disk -if you have a burner built in- etc...)!!
Hre are a few links for the remote control subject:
WinLIRC
Girder
IRassistant