What you're looking for is the sequence of events. Basically it's foundation/basement, framing, roofing, windows, exterior wrap/siding, rough plumbing, rough HVAC, rough electric, insulation, drywall, trim and doors, paint, cabinets and counter tops, tile, plumbing, electric and HVAC trim, finished floors, hardware, punch list, touch up.
There is always some variation, but thats the basic critical path.
What you do yourself depends on your skill level and how much time you have.
The simplest way to do it is to call me.