Originally posted by: pyonir
i think the main problem people have is they make recommendations/give advice and you dont' take it or reply to it. You already seem to have your set ways, and starting the thread in the first place is pointless.
Everyone: is that about right?
Advice should never be given with the expectation that it has to be taken. Not even if you personally think it is "good" advice. I'm sorry, your opinion does not validate whether the advice should be taken or not.
A lot of times when I am stuck in my ways, I am looking for a way out of them, so I come here to try to resolve my insecurities with the way I should be living. I am paranoid to make a change because I want to make sure every 'loophole' is figured out first, then once that is done I can become firmly decided on a change and become a new person.
And lastly, a lot of times I don't ask for advice here in most of my threads! What you guys fail to recognize is that my threads are inquiries about the female psychology, I am trying to draw ANY conclusions that I possibly can, and obviously I am a little more interested in this subject than you guys.
Many times when I ask 'why something is' or 'what do you think about this'
I am not asking for advice necessarily! I am looking for discussion.
The sad thing is, even if I made that clear at the beginning of every thread, you guys would still rip on me, because you are that stupid.