update 2/11/08:
so i first emailed the seller on 2/06/08, and after no responses, i emailed him again today. at the same time, i decided to open a dispute case with paypal. three hours after i opened the paypal dispute case, the seller responded via paypal. the following is the messege i posted via paypal:
dear seller,
i have contacted you (kingvinylandvideo@yahoo.com) on 02/06/08, and again on 02/11/08, regarding this transaction. i have not recieved any responses from you, so i have resorted to attempting to get in contact with you via paypal. to re-iterate, i purchased an item from you on ebay (auction #320213223790), but it arrived damaged due to insufficient/negligent packaging. also, the item that you sent to me is a pirated bootleg item. your auction described the item as new, unopened, and authentic. i bid on and won your auction, paid for it via paypal, but when i recieved your package, the item was not what i had agreed to purchase. i wish that you will be willing to correct this situation.
i believe there are two reasonable & acceptable resolutions. they are as follows:
1.) send me what i purchased, which is a brand new, unopened, and legitimate copy of "friends the complete series collector's gift box set". please package this item appropriately. in browsing through your other ebay feedbacks, i see that you have had other buyers criticize you for your packaging (or lack thereof) practices.
2.) issue me a full refund, including all shipping costs. what you sent to me was not what i had agreed to buy. i should not be held accountable for an error on your part. the fault is yours, thus, so are the consequences.
i am not accusing you of purposely misrepresenting and selling the item on ebay. this is an issue between you and your distributor. all i ask is that you fulfill your half of this ebay transaction. if you are unabled to, please refund to me all costs involved in this transaction. thank you.
the following is his reply:
please send back. this is a legimate box set. once i recieve the boxset i will refund your money in full. please send back to:
michael scammer
street address
city name, state zip
maybe i am just being paranoid here, but i kind of want him to send me a pre-paid shipping label. the reason being is that if i mail it back... i doubt he will refund me the return shipping cost. and what if i ship, and he just plays dumb... as in "i never got the stuff, what are you talking about?".
suggestions?