I think my exgf is cyber stalking me

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Wuffsunie

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Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Time for some soap opera stuff. Just keep on pretending that you don't know the truth about the "sister". Start telling her lies about your exgf to her, how she sucked in bed, and how she smelled bad and what not. Make her out to be a horrible gf. Then tell her how you cheated on her with a man.
*ROTFLOL!!!* Dude, that's just evil :D

I like it :evil:

Add that you caught some VD from the guy (crabs, something that itches) and think it might have been passed to your ex.

Originally posted by: Ulfwald
"And today we enter another episode of "As the World of Tennage Geeks Turn"."
Hee, nice. Though I perfer the title "As the Geek Types." Yours is a tad too wordy. Hee, actually we should come up with an offical ATOT title for Soap Opera-ish threads.
 

MattCo

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Even better, pretend like the sister had been trying to get you into bed. Type stuff like: "now that I have broken up with your sister, I will take you up on the offer of sex you made to me".

-MC
 

alkemyst

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Are you sure she was even your g/f to begin with?

Another thing having your ex call after talking with her sister not that unusual except for the drama queens out there....

I think you are creating your own soap opera since you may not be over her yet.
 

upsciLLion

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Sorry guys. Unfortunately after we broke up I threw away the huge archive of XXX home made movies she and I made.
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I'm not TRYING to create a soap opera. If I had my way, she and I wouldn't talk. Unfortunately I am not so much of an @$$hole to hang up on her.

She decided to pay me a visit at work today. It kills me to have to be so cold to her, but from what I've come to know there is no alternative. :( She was not a good idea from the beginning. We have such different personalities. I am teh uber schmuck. :(

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CinderElmo

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Make like you had a computer crash and you can't IM anymore - then stay in invisible mode all the time. Every second you are on IM with your ex or her sister is extending your "overtime" relationship with her...and keeping the hope alive. I know what your situation is like...and the only thing that worked for me was dropping out of sight as much as humanly possible. The fact that she still visits you at work is a bad sign :(
 

upsciLLion

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Originally posted by: CinderElmo
Make like you had a computer crash and you can't IM anymore - then stay in invisible mode all the time. Every second you are on IM with your ex or her sister is extending your "overtime" relationship with her...and keeping the hope alive. I know what your situation is like...and the only thing that worked for me was dropping out of sight as much as humanly possible. The fact that she still visits you at work is a bad sign :(

I'm trying to be as invisible as possible, but the fact that AIM doesn't have an invisibility mode kind of hampers that effort. Even if I block her it's just as easy to create another account. The fact that she knows where I work is a bad thing. I should move. :) To like India.

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Wuffsunie

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Originally posted by: upsciLLion
I'm trying to be as invisible as possible, but the fact that AIM doesn't have an invisibility mode kind of hampers that effort. Even if I block her it's just as easy to create another account. The fact that she knows where I work is a bad thing. I should move. :) To like India.
Report her to building security, if there is any. Or whoever has informal control of the door. Would LOVE to see her face the next time she comes for a "visit" and is escorted off the premesis.

 

shimsham

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just be a man and cut off all contact with her. thats the only way to successfully deal with it and get on with your life. if she cant handle it, thats her problem. all the drama and ER crap is just part of the game, which she is obviously winning.....
 

upsciLLion

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The last 3 or 4 times it has been someone else taking her. It took a while, but I've slowly realized what was going on. :p

I'm 21, which is sort of like 12. Good guess, though. :)

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Nebor

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Originally posted by: moonshinemadness
Originally posted by: amnesiac
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Ask her sis to play pirates with you...


Arghhhhh!!!!!

HARRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

Oh sh!t stop it your killing me!!.....routes around for Bl00dNinja scripts ;)

Rhinos dont mess around, they charge your ass.
 

upsciLLion

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Yeah, she does. She has 3 sisters. They're either taken or illegally young, so let's not make naughty comments. :)

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DrPizza

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Well, chat with the "sister" a few times... and make up a completely fictitious girlfriend. Within the next 2 or 3 weeks, announce that you got your girlfriend pregnant and are contemplating marrying her because it's the decent thing to do.
 

Yax

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Originally posted by: DrPizza
Well, chat with the "sister" a few times... and make up a completely fictitious girlfriend. Within the next 2 or 3 weeks, announce that you got your girlfriend pregnant and are contemplating marrying her because it's the decent thing to do.

That'll be a huge mistake. Don't play with the mind of a messed up girl. She's likely to find you and shoot herself in the head right in front of you.

I say next time you talk to her sister, just tell her you didn't like your ex to begin with and was only using her for sex. Since the sex got boring you decided to move on to using someone else. That should end it. Then don't talk to either of them anymore.
 

upsciLLion

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I still don't understand how I need to grow up. I am honest with her, upfront with her, and I have not resorted to :beer: as an escape. So um, I guess maybe the fact that I'm only 21 is why I need to grow up? :confused:

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no0b

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" I am mildly persuing a possible candidate for dating."'


WTF, who talks like this, besides moonbeam?