I think I'm broken

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Well things are going good between the gf and me so far. (No pics yet, I was going to today but she had to leave) She came over to study today and things happened. Lets just say I couldn't hold up my end of the bargin. I'm very attracted to her but I dunno what happened. Is that normal or has that ever happened to anyone?
 

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Probably just nervous. Have you had much uhhh...experience in such "activities" before?
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Things are getting worse and better for me at the same time.

Somebody shoot me. No really, I'll give you my address.

nik
 

UberDave

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i'm in the same boat.

sometimes it's good, sometimes i just lose interest or something.


protein helps......uh lol...



I think it's something more in your head though
 

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Stage fright. It'll get better, just need to take things a little more slowly and gently.
 

Evadman

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Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
No it was my first time doing such activities :(

Then that is what it was. Don't worry about it.

 

Mucman

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Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
No it was my first time doing such activities :(

:Q, thanks for scaring the crap out of me!

/me hopes to be able to perform on the big day!

 

amnesiac

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It's performance anxiety in your case, most likely.
I had problems like that with my last g/f.. I've always been a spectacular performer, so to speak..but I guess I was distracted one day and lost it, and several times after I became preoccupied with worrying about it happening again so it did.

Just take it slow, don't rush things.. pay attention to each other's needs.
 
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lol @ KB

Thanks for the advice. We both kinda agreed maybe we were taking it to fast so we're gonna slow it down a lil bit, thanks for the advice and words of encouragement :D
 

Spamela

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i sense a lock in your thread's future.

i suppose it happens to everyone, eventually, at least once.
 

ElFenix

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Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Sleep on a hard mattress and do it in the morning when you wake up stiff.

heheh what a great pun :D
 

wyvrn

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Its normal, happens to all men at some times in their life. Sometimes it requires medication, but most of the time its attributable to stress or major lifestyle changes. Or depression.
 

Red Dawn

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suppose it happens to everyone, eventually, at least once.
Its normal, happens to all men at some times in their life
Has yet to happen to me and at 48 I'm still going strong!

All kidding aside, since this was your first time I wouldn't worry about it if I were you (though you still are going to) Maybe you can talk her into giving you some Fellatio first. If that doesn't do the trick then maybe you better go see a Doctor or look into becoming a hairdresser.
 

Hammer

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sounds like performance anxiety especially if its you first time. drink a couple of beers to relax you, but don't drink too much. :p
 

Moonbeam

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I would offer to show you, but I'd probably get performance anxiety myself and your gf might slap me.