Parenting is tough, and the toughest part of it is to avoid 'killing with kindness'. Soda, chips, cookies, juices, ice-cream - treating kids with these seems kindness, but they'll kill your kids. Not right away, not tomorrow morning, but they take their toll inevitably.
Early on as parents, my wife was the nag and I used to get irritated with her for being the spoil-sport at every turn, pointing out stuff the kids should not consume, and hence we should not either. But when a warning letter came in from the school for my older daughter when she was 9, we tested her for cholesterol, which came out bad, and I realized I was in denial.
Now I have stepped in to ban everything 'fun' from the kitchen, and have taken on the villain's cloak. We don't have any soda in the house; we get limited quantity for parties, and get rid of them immediately. Packaged juice is rare, and only those with nothing but actual fruit juice, and with pulp, are allowed. We have at least 4 types of fruit on the counter and the mandate is that all of us (kids and parents) have to eat at least 3 of those each day (like one apple, a banana and an orange or a cup of berries or grapes). At no point is a cookie or a muffin or an ice-cream is considered a 'snack', so none of us eats a whole muffin or cup-cake - we share. At the movies we get popcorn but no drinks other than water. At restaurants we get just water, even in company of others getting soda and lemonades.
We buy material for salad (lettuce, tomatoes, cucumber, olives) from the farmer's market and eat large salads every day right after we get back from school/work : our default 'snacking food'. I have become an expert in cutting salad for everybody in minutes 🙂.
Along with all that, we walk around the block (2 miles) at least 4 days a week. I nailed a hoop above the garage door to shoot hoops every evening, and now both my girls are better at it than me! We roller-blade, we cycle.
After 4 years, now the kids are themselves experts in finding the healthy part in every setting. It helps their self esteem when adults are shocked to see them eat raw broccoli, or prefer to get the house-salad instead of the cheese-sticks.
The first six months of all that was really exhausting for all of us, taking away a lot of our time and energy. But now it's our way of life, and the kids have just accepted that's how we live.
So I can't accept that we need more laws to make us healthier. We can' definitely use as many role-models as we can find. When the first lady (or any other celebrity) talks in the same vein, it's easier to get young kids motivated. But all of this falls on parents. We got these kids in the world. We own the responsibility of putting them on the right path too.
edit : I can't believe the cost of food can dictate any choice! While produce in a big grocery store is expensive, there are farmer's markets and others such that keep them down. And, if I had to cut down costs, I'd get rid of the TV and save on cable fees before I feed any kid chips and cookies in lieu of healthier options.