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I needs suggestions on what to do on second date...

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Pakman

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So anyways, here's the story. I agreed to go on a blind date this past Sunday with this korean girl. We met at a starbucks and took things from there. My original plan was to just meet the girl, have some coffee and chit chat, and if we liked each other, we'd see each other again. Anyways, the coffee led to us having dinner, and after dinner was over, I drove her back to her car. We sat there for a little bit thinking this was the end of the date. Anyways, she asks me what we else we wanted to do.... many things raced through my mind at that time.... Anyways, and I really don't like taking first dates to a movie, but since I didn't really plan much, I had to kinda wing it and I couldn't think of anything else we could have done. So we go watch Saw 2. Yeah, and we agreed to see each other again, but now I'm trying to look like I've at least planned something for our second date. Otherwise, I'd just look like an ass. Oh, and I know you guys are gonna ask, I have NO pics. Not yet at least. She's very attractive though. She reminds me of the korean actress Choi Ji-woo. I told her that as well.
 
a nice place for dinner where the music isnt too loud so you can at least talk to each other, if it gets loud all you do is sit beside her saying that its hard to hear lol
 
local jazz club, make or paint pottery together (good chance to have conversation), go volunteer together in the morning (homeless shelter, food bank, etc..) then have brunch together
 
Double-date with someone and go to one of those hippie coffee lounges where you can play Pictionary.
 
dinner then hit the mall

women are perfect for getting that holiday shopping done with....well for me anyway cuz i never know what to get people unless the tell me straight out what to get them.
 
Originally posted by: captains
dinner then hit the mall

women are perfect for getting that holiday shopping done with....well for me anyway cuz i never know what to get people unless the tell me straight out what to get them.
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ice skating is fun. you could go bowling. go to the arcade and play some lazer tag. is there a dinner theater? that's kind of fun.

anno
 
Originally posted by: J Heartless Slick
Try to do something she is interested in. Can you remember anything she said during your first day that may help?
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yeah, she must've said something that'd clue you as to what she'd like
 
I still say either take her to a.) a dinner or b.) a really good nightclub.

You could always just try asking her and arranging something together. That way you can't lose.
 
Originally posted by: Pakman
Yeah, and we agreed to see each other again, but now I'm trying to look like I've at least planned something for our second date. Otherwise, I'd just look like an ass.
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I'm confused as to why you'll look like an ass. It's a 2nd date, not a life commitment or anything. Ask her if she has any ideas? Is she so needy that she needs you to plan the evening?

Maybe you can find a bar or cafe or something that has live music.

If you didn't get any ideas after the first date about what she likes to do, then go on another "first date" and just chat more. dinner/cafe type thing I suppose.
 
dood for reals you need to take her out dancing....preferbly to a reggae dancehall...just went out on mah 2nd date last night to watch sean paul at the house of blues...and damn the show was great as well as the reggae music....girls love dancing to the reggae beats.
 
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