I feel liek the calorie counting is never accurate for me because I never know exactly how much I am eating, and exactly how much I am burning.
Since we can't actually measure our exact caloric intake/expenditure, calorie counting isn't accurate for
anyone. However, you can still make your estimates extremely useful by taking advantage of the one thing you
can measure: your bodyweight. Here is what you do:
Use a website like
http://www.thedailyplate.com or
www.fitday.com to do the tracking for you. Both sites have huge databases of foods and exercises, so all you really need to know is your portion sizes and how long you worked out for. Estimate your numbers the best you can for a couple days, aiming for a 500-1000 calorie deficit per day. Now, your initial numbers are probably going to be off, so here is the key to making this work: weigh yourself on a daily basis. If your bodyweight is going down at the proper rate (1-2lbs per week), then your caloric estimates are accurate. If your bodyweight is not changing at the proper rate (either dropping to fast or not fast enough), then your estimates are off and you'll need to go back and tweak them. As you repeat this process again and again, you'll be able to use the bio-feedback of your scale to hone in your caloric estimates and weight loss.
One note: I said above to weigh yourself on a daily basis, but it is important to understand that your bodyweight can fluctuate from day to day for a number of reasons - water retention, what food you ate, time of day you are weighing yourself, etc. To mitigate this, try to weigh yourself under identical conditions each day, such as right after waking up and before breakfast. Moreover, to see if your bodyweight is changing at the right rate, pay attention to the weekly trend rather than day to day changes, as fluctuations will average out over the long term.