I need to be more careful with what I hit

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Howard

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Ulfwald
Sex without love is like taking drain cleaner. It cleans you out and leaves you feeling empty.

Sex with someone you love and respect is the greatest feeling in the world. Snuggling afterward and having her fall asleep in you arms is rewarding, it shows she trusts you, she feels safe with you.

Good feelings are hard to come by these days, especially with someone else. When you find something good, hold on to it, but not too tight, as you may smother it.

am i the only person that thought this sounded gay as all hell?


anyway good luck w/ ur problem OS. hope the condom did its job

How old are you?

almost 21, been in a relationship w/ my g/f for 5 years. we're high school sweethearts. the love i feel for her is inexplicable. only 2 people in this world i would die for, and she's one of them.

and i still find that post gay. my opinion. lay off.

Owned.

**CONFIRMED** 0wned!

Yes, that post did sound gay as all hell. Valid, but still sounded like it would fit nicely into an Elton John / Liberaci duet.

- M4H

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
and i still find that post gay. my opinion. lay off.
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Well you could just as well gone out in the back yard and grunted. It's an opinion of the most shallow and worthless kind. "I find that post gay." What? You find it irrationally upsets you somehow below the level of your language to articulate? You wanted, irrationally and without any pretext at all, to insult the original poster? You think everything is gay? You are gay? Have your opinion, but don't mind me if I have my own about you. You are the dumb in the dumbing down of intelligent discourse, no? I think you're gay. Malefeces is gay too.

That's gay.

- M4H

 

[Ulfwald]

M4H

It may have sounded gay to you, as well as some others here, but you know what, I couldn't care any less about your opinion.

When you finally grow up and have some real life experinces to learn from, maybe then I will give your opinions more attention than just a passing thought.

 

[brigden]

Sex without love is like taking drain cleaner. It cleans you out and leaves you feeling empty.

Actually, the only kind of sex that cleans you out and leaves you feeling empty is anal fisting, but I'm willing to bet you've never tried that...

Ulfwald, I have had many, many experiences. I have been in love twice, and had many annoynmous partners. Both were rewarding. I think it is you who is missing something.

Don't dismiss people because you need love to find sex rewarding. I respect your emotions, you should respect mine. Remember, your feelings aren't definitive.

 

[Ulfwald]

Originally posted by: brigden
Sex without love is like taking drain cleaner. It cleans you out and leaves you feeling empty.

Actually, the only kind of sex that cleans you out and leaves you feeling empty is anal fisting, but I'm willing to bet you've never tried that...

Damn skippy!!!

That is exit only.

 

[Linux23]

Originally posted by: brigden
Sex without love is like taking drain cleaner. It cleans you out and leaves you feeling empty.

Actually, the only kind of sex that cleans you out and leaves you feeling empty is anal fisting, but I'm willing to bet you've never tried that...

Ulfwald, I have had many, many experiences. I have been in love twice, and had many annoynmous partners. Both were rewarding. I think it is you who is missing something.

Don't dismiss people because you need love to find sex rewarding.

have you?:Q

 

[brigden]

I should clarify that I haven't attempted such a manoeuvre.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Ulfwald
M4H

It may have sounded gay to you, as well as some others here, but you know what, I couldn't care any less about your opinion.

When you finally grow up and have some real life experinces to learn from, maybe then I will give your opinions more attention than just a passing thought.

If you actually cared to read a little deeper into my post instead of going into PC-RageMonkey mode at the word "gay" you might notice something.

The advice and points expressed are valid. However, they fall far from the tree of male heterosexual opinions. Find a male who, in the prime of their youth, would have declined a one-night-stand with an attractive woman, or who had not attempted to engage in one with zero intention of "cuddling".

Of course, since you don't care about what I say, you probably won't read this, because since I'm not Elite like you, I must be just another 13-year-old on Daddy's Dell who just learned about the Marvals oF tEh intArweb!

- M4H

 

[theNEOone]

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
and i still find that post gay. my opinion. lay off.
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Well you could just as well gone out in the back yard and grunted. It's an opinion of the most shallow and worthless kind. "I find that post gay." What? You find it irrationally upsets you somehow below the level of your language to articulate? You wanted, irrationally and without any pretext at all, to insult the original poster? You think everything is gay? You are gay? Have your opinion, but don't mind me if I have my own about you. You are the dumb in the dumbing down of intelligent discourse, no? I think you're gay. Malefeces is gay too.

like someone else said, your elitist b.s. gets real old, real fast. realize that many of us here are ivy leaguers. we just don't care to lay down complete sentences, fix punctuation, or say the same thing 10 different ways. i know i'm smart. i don't need to put that intelligence on display for others.

 

[Ulfwald]

I could tell you stories of many one night stands, relationships where we were just bed buddies, Long term relationships, and semi long term relationships with multiple girls at the same time.

I can't remember 2/3 of the girls I have slept with. I just know that as I matured, I wanted more out of relationships than just sex, and if it involved sex, I wanted it to be with someone special.

 

[brigden]

Let me put it to you this way, guys: Everybody loves a great movie that leaves you thinking, but every once in a while I just want to watch an episode of Blind Date...

 

[Jzero]

However, they fall far from the tree of male heterosexual opinions.

Right. Keep telling yourself that. One day your closet door will come swinging open. If you thought that sentiment was "gay," I have to wonder about your preference.
Those of use who are straight don't need to keep telling ourselves that in order to be reassured.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Jzero

However, they fall far from the tree of male heterosexual opinions.

Right. Keep telling yourself that. One day your closet door will come swinging open. If you thought that sentiment was "gay," I have to wonder about your preference.
Those of use who are straight don't need to keep telling ourselves that in order to be reassured.

"Gay" by definition, no. "Gay" in the stereotype of today's typical male - definitely.
Stereotypes are ugly, but they do have a basis in reality in order to stick. That, and the word "gay" has pretty much lost all weight as a definition of homosexuality.

But if you want to claim I'm a closet homosexual, I won't jilt your fantasies. Just don't try to put them into reality should I ever show up at an ATOT meet.

- M4H

 

[brigden]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Jzero

However, they fall far from the tree of male heterosexual opinions.

Right. Keep telling yourself that. One day your closet door will come swinging open. If you thought that sentiment was "gay," I have to wonder about your preference.
Those of use who are straight don't need to keep telling ourselves that in order to be reassured.

"Gay" by definition, no. "Gay" in the stereotype of today's typical male - definitely.
Stereotypes are ugly, but they do have a basis in reality in order to stick. That, and the word "gay" has pretty much lost all weight as a definition of homosexuality.

But if you want to claim I'm a closet homosexual, I won't jilt your fantasies. Just don't try to put them into reality should I ever show up at an ATOT meet.

- M4H

Owned.

 

[NorthRiver]

Take it from someone who has herpes, YOU DON'T WANT THEM.

I never slept around to get them either. I got it from my wife, it seems that cold sores on the lips, the ones that are really small, can give you herpes
Your first outbreak is really bad. You will think that your noodle is gonna fall off, or you are gonna wanna take it off. As time goes on, they come and go. I am to the point where I only get an outbreak like every 3 to 5 months, and the area that is affected is about the size of a nickle.

Take care of yourselves, herpes is no joke!!!

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: cherrytwist
Condoms aren't 100% but nothing is. To say he needs to see a doctor after sleeping with someone is ridiculous.

The only reason to see a doctor is if you have symptoms. To feel guilty about having sex with a stranger is natural, because most of us are raised to believe that it is wrong. Personally, if you both are consenting adults more power to you.

I agree completely.

 

[Gaard]

Ulfwald -
Can you convince me that green is a better color than blue? How about that Batman is cooler than Supes? Or that westerns are better than comedies? You see? It's all preferences. It's your opinion that sex is better with someone you're in love with. Your opinion is based on experiences, right? So is mine...I still have my 45's collection if that gives an indication of my age...and in my opinion sex is just as enjoyable with someone you just met as it is with someone you're in love with.

Not saying you're wrong. How can a personal preference be wrong? How's the old saying go...Different strokes for different folks.

cheers

 

"Condoms aren't 100% but nothing is. To say he needs to see a doctor after sleeping with someone is ridiculous."

Actually, abstinence is. And this includes using discretion when deciding who or what to hit. You choose not to practice it doesn't mean that it is impossible.

All I can say is, you get what you ask for. I would only sympathise in a situation where someone had no choice. If you're cheap, you're cheap. It's your business, none of mine--so long as you don't approach me. If you approach me, I'll kick your front so you live to regret it. LOL!

 

[Legendary]

Kudos to Ulfwald for not shooting his Best Man and Fiancee.

 

[Ulfwald]

Originally posted by: Legendary
Kudos to Ulfwald for not shooting his Best Man and Fiancee.

That was over 15 years ago.

I married someone else 4 years ago this september. I have a wonderful wife and a great little baby boy.

 

[OS]

Well I talked to her recently and she says she had a full STD test about a month ago and it came out negative. Of course, I don't know if it's true or not.

I was reading up and I came across a 18 month study of couples where one partner had herpes and another did not. The transmission rate from women to men is actually pretty low, only 2% of the men in the study became infected. Unfortunately, it seems like women are five times more likely to get infected in the same situation. link

I never realized though how much of a misnomer 'safe sex' is though. Condoms are only somewhat effective against HPV and herpes and they can still be passed without any symptoms.

I'll get tested sometime. I've had too much drama in the past half month, I think I'll live like a freaking saint from now on. I'm probably being paranoid, but I can't help it.

thx for the support guys