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I need some life altering advice...

ConwayJim

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Ok, i don't know who to turn to, so i'll just post this here; and get some insite on this matter.

I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision. Thanks in advance guys.


I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been having an
affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out "with the girls" a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive, although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked up her cell phone just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.


Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just don't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of . It was while crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear quarter panel.


Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair myself?
 

Evadman

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Ya, just get out a grinder and grind off the rust. Then, use a thin coat of filler to smooth out the grinded area. let set, sand, clean, paint. All is good.
 

Slacker

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It depends how much you love her, remember the good times? all that she has done for you, are you willing to put some time and effort into repairing the damage time has done, could you possibly "overlook" the ugliness and live with it? this is not a case that calls for scrapping all you two have been through, I think it can be salvaged.
 

her209

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Originally posted by: Slacker
It depends how much you love her, remember the good times? all that she has done for you, are you willing to put some time and effort into repairing the damage time has done, could you possibly "overlook" the ugliness and live with it? this is not a case that calls for scrapping all you two have been through, I think it can be salvaged.
Or he could just date men exclusively.