I need some advice...

[Bluga]

There's this girl in school that i really have a feeling for, i have talk to her few times online but not in person. Today she sent me this message:

"hey, how come u don't say hi in school! hehe"

her: oh i dunno, cuz u always just walk away so fast,haha
me: oh i didn't know you were noticing me
her : oh i dunno
me : i will tomorrow
her: oh well doesn't matter !!
me: huh?
her : ??
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[edited] so the next day........... arrrr..........i sit next to her and just talked to her for 10 min, she's not respnsive at all, i would ask a question, she answers than turns her face away from me........ Plus she only said bye after class. I mean why bother if she showed no interest?

Allright, second attempt later, same thing happened, i said to my self: let it be it! So for the whole day i totally ignored her, but my friends said she's peeking at me constantly

 

[urbantechie]

Next time say, "Hey whats up.."

 

[fake]

Don't be embarassed, just next time you see her say something ..

 

[Bluga]

What should i say after "hey, what's up?"

I AM AN IDIOT.

 

[pillage2001]

It's a beginning of something beautiful man. Why the wait? Go say 'hi' to her and ask her out for lunch!!

 

[urbantechie]

Whatcha doing?

Hows it going?

 

[pamchenko]

i thk this is where you should play hard to get...continue to talk to her online, and fail to acknowledge her in real life...pretend like you don't even know her...but then be the best friend online

 

[Emulex]

yah hi let me buy you lunch..

 

[Azraele]

Just follow the natural flow of conversation. Talk about teachers, talk about classes, gossip in general. Just relax, you'll be fine

 

[Bluga]

.

 

[mpg]

Are you 5 or 6 years old?

 

[KameLeon]

her: oh i dunno, cuz u always just walk away so fast,haha
me: oh i didn't know you were noticing me
her : oh i dunno
me : i will tomorrow
her: oh well doesn't matter !!
me: huh?
her : ??

Yep, you screwed up..! :Q

lol @ mpg. his english is kinda weak..

 

[Emulex]

Make sure to tell her ALL YOUR BASE ARE BELONG TO US

she will laff.

 

[pamchenko]

rofl mpg...I guess I would be flamed if I called this guy a retard. anyways...my HONEST criticism of your mini chat...

her: oh i dunno, cuz u always just walk away so fast,haha
me: oh i didn't know you were noticing me (this shows lack of self-confidence, strike 1)
her : oh i dunno
me : i will tomorrow (this is mixed...tone is ambigious to her, you sound "obliged" to be nice, or it could be postive if she looks fwd to you saying hi to her)
her: oh well doesn't matter !! (a girl just being cheery, you can tell by exaggerated punctuation)
me: huh? (it's painfully obvious you like her)
her : ?? (she's obviously upset that you don't understand she's a naturally upbeat person...)

 

[KameLeon]

Umm..Actually, DO NOT say that to her! (what Emulex said). She'll think you're some geek loser obsessed with internet trends/stupid phrases, like most of the people here!

 

[Lily27]

the huh? wasn't the smoothest thing you coulda said. try to change the subject or something

 

[pillage2001]

You struck out man.

 

[Bluga]

<< Umm..Actually, DO NOT say that to her! (what Emulex said). She'll think you're some geek loser obsessed with internet trends/stupid phrases, like most of the people here! >>



hmm, that's some serious flame


I will not give up!

 

[pillage2001]

Well, it's too early to know if you really screwed man. Talk to her in school and see if she's avoiding you or giving you the cold shoulder. By then, you'll be smart enough to notice you screwed.

 

[KameLeon]

Hence the smiley at end, Bluga.

 

[Daniel]

Well at this point you've already broken the &quot;I feel dumb&quot; barrier, why not just walk up to her and start talking, what do you have to lose.

 

[hubbs]

Word up homie. That gets all the women

 

[Bluga]

Sould i sit next to her? I mean we have big lecture halls(+300 ppl), all seats are side by side.

 

[mpg]

I laugh in your general direction, seriously what is your age

 

[pillage2001]

Why don't you ask her if you can borrow her notes or if there's a big test or quiz coming up, ask her if she would like to study together with ya?