I need some advice ATOT...

GagHalfrunt

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There is no personal problem that cannot be solved with a suitable application of high explosives.
 

eits

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i'm sensing that you have a dilemma in which you have two options. one will make more sense, but the other will make you feel better, but will result in a lesser outcome. i think you should go with the option that will allow you to sleep easier at night with less chance of regret.
 

olds

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Mar 3, 2000
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Rude,
I know we started this conversation via PM but I am going to post my advise here. I won't divulge any of the details we covered in the PMs.

I really think the best thing to do is to tell your family that you are gay. Coming "out of the closet" will ease the burden on you and reduce the stress. Moving forward will be easier. I know you think your son will think less of you but he won't, he loves you.

But, I wouldn't tell anyone at all about you, the gerbil and the Mexican farm worker. No good can come from that.

Good luck man, I am pulling for you.
 

BoomerD

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Feb 26, 2006
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Rude,
I know we started this conversation via PM but I am going to post my advise here. I won't divulge any of the details we covered in the PMs.

I really think the best thing to do is to tell your family that you are gay. Coming "out of the closet" will ease the burden on you and reduce the stress. Moving forward will be easier. I know you think your son will think less of you but he won't, he loves you.

But, I wouldn't tell anyone at all about you, the gerbil and the Mexican farm worker. No good can come from that.

Good luck man, I am pulling for you.

Why must you ALWAYS be so intentionally vague?

Dammit...a few details slipped would have improved this thread.

:p
 

SSSnail

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Nov 29, 2006
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Rude,
I know we started this conversation via PM but I am going to post my advise here. I won't divulge any of the details we covered in the PMs.

I really think the best thing to do is to tell your family that you are gay. Coming "out of the closet" will ease the burden on you and reduce the stress. Moving forward will be easier. I know you think your son will think less of you but he won't, he loves you.

But, I wouldn't tell anyone at all about you, the gerbil and the Mexican farm worker. No good can come from that.

Good luck man, I am pulling for you.
Ah ha... I see what you're all about...
 

eits

Lifer
Jun 4, 2005
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www.integratedssr.com
Rude,
I know we started this conversation via PM but I am going to post my advise here. I won't divulge any of the details we covered in the PMs.

I really think the best thing to do is to tell your family that you are gay. Coming "out of the closet" will ease the burden on you and reduce the stress. Moving forward will be easier. I know you think your son will think less of you but he won't, he loves you.

But, I wouldn't tell anyone at all about you, the gerbil and the Mexican farm worker. No good can come from that.

Good luck man, I am pulling for you.

lol that made me laugh