I need help!

BmXStuD

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What do you guys/gals do when you got alot of things on your mind. I and many have stressful days plus im a teen, but stress is always pressure on anyone! Today i had bad day and many other days know im lost im confused. What do you guys do when your having a bad day and fillany get home to kind of sum it down...... do you sleep or punch walls? Pls give me some tips and i dont wont any assholes putting dumb thing on this topic im already having a bad day as it is and you can tell.
 

Hoober

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I usually try to have a lot of sex. That seems to make things all better.
 

Electric Amish

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The key is to not let the stress overwhelm you. Take deep breaths and realize that things will work out good or bad all you can do is what you're doing.

amish
 

rgwalt

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I typically watch some TV or go for a walk to unwind. Sleeping helps, but the problems are still there when you wake up. Sorry that you had a bad day.

Ryan
 

Maleficus

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Lay down listen to music and chill :)

Talk to a friend if you need to get things off your chest.
 

OrByte

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take things one at a time bud, it happens to everybody.

get yourself into weightlifting or some type of excercise so you can release some stress. You have to have some type, any type of stress reliever. Reading? art? music? sports? computers? something to let your mind focus without stress, but rather an escape of some sort.

manage your day better so you can tackle these things that you have going on inside your head. Again one at a time, its the best way to get out of that overwhelming state of being.

good luck.


 

Azraele

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It depends on what helps you, and that varies from individual to individual. Some find that vegging in front of a tv helps, or a warm bath and a good book. Some like to exercise, jog, or garden. Listening to music or creative expression such as painting (or even cooking, become a master chef:) ) helps. Sometimes going out with a few friends is the ticket.
 

psydancerqt

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i go on the computer and talk to people. i can express my thoughts to strangers in chat rooms and get everything off my chest. find a hobby that you really enjoy doing and do that. i used to dance.. some people play instruments... read a book.. watch tv.. just do something that relaxes you!! and dont think about anything else!
 

amnesiac

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Stressful days as a teen? Pffffffffffft.
What's your definition of a bad day? Lots of homework and kids ragging on your for not being able to spell?

Please tell me that at the very least you are getting the crap beat out of you by a bully and you have to come home to an abusive alcoholic parent or SOMETHING catastrophic.
 

BmXStuD

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Originally posted by: amnesiac
Stressful days as a teen? Pffffffffffft.
What's your definition of a bad day? Lots of homework and kids ragging on your for not being able to spell?

Please tell me that at the very least you are getting the crap beat out of you by a bully and you have to come home to an abusive alcoholic parent or SOMETHING catastrophic.
you dont understand crap so be quiet.

 

Electric Amish

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Originally posted by: BmXStuD
Originally posted by: amnesiac
Stressful days as a teen? Pffffffffffft.
What's your definition of a bad day? Lots of homework and kids ragging on your for not being able to spell?

Please tell me that at the very least you are getting the crap beat out of you by a bully and you have to come home to an abusive alcoholic parent or SOMETHING catastrophic.
you dont understand crap so be quiet.

Explain your problems then...

amish
 

SuepaFly

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Just because he's a teen doesn't mean he's not capable of having problems. And sometimes problems effect teens more so because of the whole teenage angst mentality that happens. Leave the guy alone, he already requested no flamers on his thread.
 

gopunk

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go to some local punk rock or ska concert and jump into the pit :)
or just sit at home and listen...
or watch tv (southpark, dragnet)
or do hw (yes, i am weird)
 

Electric Amish

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Originally posted by: SuepaFly
Just because he's a teen doesn't mean he's not capable of having problems. And sometimes problems effect teens more so because of the whole teenage angst mentality that happens. Leave the guy alone, he already requested no flamers on his thread.

I'm trying to fvcking help him and he can't bring himself to elaborate on the "problem"...

Help is a 2-way street. I can't help him if he A) won't listen or B) won't give me any info.

Jesus Christ in a chicken basket!!

amish
 

thirtythree

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When I'm stressed I just saw screw it and forget about whatever is stressing me .. this isn't always a good idea but if it's just school or something how much is it really gonna matter in the long run?
Originally posted by: psydancerqt
i go on the computer and talk to people. i can express my thoughts to strangers in chat rooms and get everything off my chest. find a hobby that you really enjoy doing and do that.
This works for me also.