Idk what classes you all were in, but writing notes for some classes is fucking essential if the textbook is extremely lacking and the teacher doesn't give notes. I can't get out of class and remember every fucking thing the teacher wrote or everything we went over. I come to do the problems and I am like, "Ahh I forgot that one thing... What is it that he did in class? Oh yeah. There is it. Awesome."
I do wish a lot of the times that the teachers had notes printed out though so I could just watch. I'm very into the sitting and absorbing, but my memory isn't good enough to totally get rid of notes. I like sitting in class and just watching the lecture, but I almost always regret it later because I have NOTHING but my very shitty memory to reference.
Oh, and laptop for college.... I would get a MBP with retina if I could afford it as a freshmen. I'd get that, some external storage (or maybe online storage?) and be set for at least 4 years. (Get that apple warranty) iPad would likely be useless at that point.
EDIT: What deeko said above is true... I didn't see an entitlement in his post at all.